• comparing yourself to others
  • dwelling on failure
  • entitled
  • fishing for compliments
  • followers
  • gossip
  • interpreting hurtful actions as proof of unworthiness
  • lazy
  • low self image
  • trying to please everyone
nov 18 2017 ∞
nov 18 2017 +
  • cardi b
  • eve
  • lil kim
  • m.i.a.
  • mc lyte
  • miss a
  • missly elliot
  • nicki minaj
  • remy ma
  • trina
nov 17 2017 ∞
nov 17 2017 +
  • being emotionally judged
  • constant judgement by society
  • difficulty finding love
  • diseases and unwanted testing
  • having to fend off assumptions
  • men thinking you're damaged goods
  • might be viewed just as a sex object
  • others won't take them seriously
  • perception that you might violate a partner's trust
  • unwanted pregnancies
nov 16 2017 ∞
nov 16 2017 +
  • i fear i won't have the compassion, patience or maturity to handle them
  • i haven't finished my education
  • i haven't met someone i've wanted to have kids with
  • i want to be married and in a loving relationship before i have children.
  • i want to work on myself first
  • i won't be a baby momma
  • i won't be a good role model
  • i'm afraid i'll turn into my mother once i have children
  • it would be a difficult task
  • it's irreversible
  • they're too expensive
nov 15 2017 ∞
nov 15 2017 +
  • being physically picked up
  • being the provider
  • buying flowers
  • carrying heavy items
  • cuddling with me
  • holding doors open
  • intelligence in an area i don't know much about
  • paying for my hair retightening
  • paying for the check (even if i protest, i love this shit)
  • purchasing little gifts, like jewelry and special soaps
  • working with his hands
sep 17 2017 ∞
sep 17 2017 +
  • allows the self to shine
  • don't put up with abuse or mistreatment
  • don't take criticism personally
  • don't use self deprecating language
  • good posture
  • learns from mistakes
  • managing your life responsibly
  • ok with making mistakes
  • takes risks
  • taking care of self
nov 18 2017 ∞
nov 18 2017 +
  • brownies
  • donuts
  • dressing
  • field roast
  • green beans
  • mashed potatoes
  • roasted brussell sprouts
  • roasted potatoes
  • sauteed kale
  • whole roasted cauliflower
nov 17 2017 ∞
nov 17 2017 +
  • difficult
  • horrible
  • purposeless
  • strange
  • unattractive
  • unlovable
  • untalented
  • unusual
  • unworthy
  • weak
nov 16 2017 ∞
nov 16 2017 +
  • baths
  • drafting
  • exercise
  • past relationships
  • post mfa life
  • shopping
  • sleeping
  • thesis
  • weight (have i lost any?)
  • work
nov 15 2017 ∞
nov 15 2017 +
  • 1 - alcohol servings in a week
  • 10 - pounds i've lost since may!
  • 2 - times i've filled out the fafsa
  • 3- i've been in love
  • 4 - years spent in korea
  • 5- close friends i've had in the past ten years
  • 6 - failed my learner's permit
  • 7 - number of schools i've been to
  • 8 - years i've had my locs
  • 9 - years i've been natural
nov 14 2017 ∞
nov 14 2017 +
  • black gender wars on youtube
  • house dates ('nuff said)
  • inviting me out and then forcing me to pick up the check
  • keeping tabs on who opens doors for whom
  • mgtow
  • outright saying women are only god for sex, but then getting mad when i don't want to sleep with them
  • refusing to do outside dates
  • taking me to unromantic places
  • the only way they'll talk is fwb, then add 'you should respect my honesty'
sep 17 2017 ∞
sep 17 2017 +
  • appointment with alice?
  • download college transcripts
  • download odu transcripts
  • email farideh
  • email jessica
  • email mary
  • make linked in profile
  • research job opportunities
  • second draft cover letter
  • third draft resume
nov 18 2017 ∞
nov 18 2017 +
  • craft advice
  • editing process
  • inspirations/ influences
  • mfa hypes
  • reading from selections
  • story choices
  • thesis concerns
  • vona experiences
  • what i like to write
  • why travel writing?
nov 17 2017 ∞
nov 17 2017 +
  • freedom
  • heightened sexual awareness
  • higher chance of finding a mate
  • increased sex drive
  • increased sexual confidence
  • lots of sex
  • loving your body and others' body
  • sexual and emotional fulfillment
  • sexual variety
nov 16 2017 ∞
nov 16 2017 +
  • agnostic
  • beachy
  • beautiful
  • coastal
  • cultured
  • fame obsessed
  • liberal
  • popular
  • shallow
  • vain
  • woke
nov 15 2017 ∞
nov 15 2017 +