to buy

• bug spray
• cheese/etc
• stuff for salad of some sort
• snacks
• marshmallows
• drinks from traders joes
• fruit (from farmer's market?)
• stuff for smores

to pack

• cooler
• chairs
• flashlights
• sleeping bag
• tent
• blankets
• warm clothes
• bathing suit
• something to read around the fire
• towels - face and bath
• pillows