book by Meg Jay, PhD

  • WORK
    • Identity Capital
      • What is it? Identity capital is our collection of personal assets. It is the repertoire of individual resources that we assemble over time. These are the investments we make in ourselves, the things we do well enough, or long enough, that they become a part of who we are. Some identity capital goes on a resume, such as degrees, jobs, test scores, and clubs. Other identity capital is more personal, such as how we speak, where we are from, how we solve problems, how we look. Identity capital is howe build ourselves--bit by bit, over time. Most important, identity capital is what we bring to the adult marketplace. It is the currency we use to metaphorically purc...
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  • the occult
    • magic and witchcraft
    • my interest in astrology and numerology
    • my interest in angels
    • my interest in tarot
    • my interest in spirit work
  • my love for history
  • my sense of humor
  • my romantic ideals
  • my confidence and self-love
  • the Law of Attraction
  • Golden Peak's raspberry-flavored tea every now and then
  • my friends, my family, my love
  • the mystery of the past
  • the mystery of the future
  • daydreaming of the final frontier
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  • He has a bit of a higher standard of living, so to speak, than I do, because he has almost always been more financially stable.
  • He is an older man, so he is generally a lot more experienced than I am.
  • Like most guys, he doesn't deal well with being sick. This can be a problem, though, because with him being an Aquarius rising he is also a hypochondriac and sometimes runs to the hospital over literally nothing. This is in very stark contrast to me, who has needed to visit a doctor for chronic pain for over two years now and still haven't (at the time of typing this out).
  • Johnson finds it a lot easier to express his emotions than I do.
  • Johnson is arguably more romantic than I am.
  • While both of us like essentially all mus...
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See the 2016 list here--remember, it's outdated!

  • My name is Brandi. I chose the username Venus in part because when I made this account I was just starting my journey to self-love and romance, and that's what Venus is all about.
  • Sun in Taurus, Moon in Capricorn, Pisces rising.
  • I practice witchcraft and have many occult interests:
    • astro-numerology
    • angels in spirituality
    • ceremonial magick
    • tarot
    • spirit work
  • Gryffindor House
  • Originally, I was wanting to have a history degree. Now I understand that I want to teach, but not in the traditional sense...
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Recently, Listography has announced that they will be shutting down the option to comment on people's list--which is actually really sad to me, even though I understand the reason. Since I'm such an emotional person, I wanted to make a list of all the comments I've gotten on here before.

Please note that this is in NO particular order--I just started with what my "main" folder looks like now and went from list to list. Also please note that this is incomplete (I haven't gotten to the archive yet). But anyway, I love you guys <3

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or, Things I'd Like to Be Reincarnated As. Please note that this isn't being very serious.

  • Born into a family that might not be wealthy, but has enough money as to where they don't have to struggle too much. Hopefully learn good financial advice from the get-go.
  • Born into a family that isn't violent.
  • Born in a time where there isn't as much discrimination as there is now--maybe racism, sexism, homophobia, etc., doesn't even exist.
  • Born into a colony on Mars or some other planet.
  • Born into a spiritual family.
feb 1 2019 ∞
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Memorable Events

  • he brought a bouquet to me at work before we were official
  • anniversary: October 15, 2017
  • HE NAMED A STAR AFTER ME IN TAURUS, revealed to me: December 24, 2017
  • when we moved in together
  • when we made our first home together
  • December 24, 2018: proposal

Favorite Dates

  • the arcade
  • Rocky Mountain Chocolate Factory, and window shopping in Belk
  • the arcade again - domination in air hockey
oct 23 2017 ∞
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  • I do typically drink at least one glass of water a day, but I would prefer to drink much more than that.
  • I start things and don't finish them--I want to be a lot better about that, and actually complete my projects.
  • Stop limiting myself or boxing myself in. Stop thinking that I can't do X because of Y.
    • Granted, I have gotten a lot better about this--but still.
  • Not working long enough, or at least as productive enough.
  • Not having a lot of patience with jobs just because it's not what I want to be doing. Because, y'know, things happen and we gotta work anyway.
  • Stop procrastinating so much--but again, I have gotten a good bit better than what I once was doing.
feb 1 2019 ∞
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From the age of thirteen to nineteen, here are songs that I found that I liked listening to. Pretty much all of the songs from my childhood are included in this one, but I won't make note of each one of those. That'd just be too much xD

Songs of the Time-ish

  • Problem - Ariana Grande
  • Everybody Talks - Neon Trees
  • Summertime Sadness - Lana Del Rey
  • Not Afraid - Eminem
  • When I'm Gone - Eminem
  • Fireworks - Katy Perry
  • Hot n' Cold - Katy Perry
  • Bad Romance - Lady Gaga
  • Somebody That I Used to Know - Gotye
  • Stay With Me - Sam Smith
  • See You Again - Wiz Khalifa
  • Gangnam Style - PSY
  • Radioactive - Imagine Dragons
  • E.T. - Katy Perry
  • Set Fire to the Rain - Adele
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2019: Guys, I was just exploring through my archive and found this list! I'd forgotten about it (seeing as how it was last written in 2016 and all), but I think it's still a good idea for a list, so I'm changing it around.

  • Wake up between 5:00 - 7:00 A.M.
    • Ideas:
      • enjoy the sunrise
      • listen to a "good morning" meditation to have the best possible day
      • have breakfast (don't skip)
      • exercise
  • Get to work.
    • Ideas:
      • write or edit posts
      • create graphics
aug 30 2016 ∞
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I grew up on music from the 60s to 80s, and since they're not playing every weekend from my parents' room anymore it's getting harder to remember titles and band names. So I wanted to write them down <3


  • The Beatles
    • Here Comes the Sun
    • Come Together
    • Let it Be
    • Revolution
    • All You Need is Love
  • The Sound of Silence - Simon & Garfunkel
  • Mrs. Robinson - Simon & Garfunkel


  • Pink Floyd
    • Wish You Were Here album
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