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daybreak follows:

You don't want them back. Not the way they are now. You don't want to be with someone who doesn't love you. It's immensely hard when you think back to the good times, I know, but you can't bring that back. If you think about getting back together realistically, it doesn't sound that great. You wouldn't be able to trust them anymore, you would probably feel unappreciated all the time, everything you feel now wouldn't just magically go away. It's a heartbreaking thing to realize, but you can't have what you had anymore. You can, however, have that with someone else. Something better even. Also, the fact you're still hurting while they're not probably just proves you're a more devoted and loyal person, someone who loves deeply and unconditionally. You deserve better. Stay strong.

jul 30 2017 ∞
jul 30 2017 +

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jan 12 2014 ∞
dec 9 2015 +

You’re stuck in traffic right now. Your car hasn’t moved. The road is jammed. This traffic- will never cease. You won’t get there, darling. You have to get out of your car and start walking. You must let go of the car. It will be almost impossible to do it, for you have invested so much into it and you’re going to lose it. You’re going to lose all of it, all of him. You’ve lost him. But you really have to build the courage to get out of the car and start walking in order to “move on.” You’ll die in that car. The car = him.

may 11 2017 ∞
may 12 2017 +
  • don't change yourself for him, and don't let him change you
  • don't let him call you names for no reason
  • don't let him disrespect you and your problems
  • don't let him overstep your boundaries and force you to do anything you are uncomfortable with
  • keep your pride
  • you miss the memories and the feeling of having someone you can call yours, but you don't miss him and you shouldn't
mar 28 2017 ∞
oct 24 2017 +

"The second time you fall in love with someone, you’re going to feel so relieved. When you get your heart broken for the first time, you can’t imagine loving someone else again or having someone else love you. You worry about your ex finding love before you do, you worry about being damaged goods. And then it happens. Someone else loves you and you can sleep well at night.

The second time you fall in love with someone, it’s going to feel different. The first time felt like a dream almost. You were untouched, untainted by anyone. You accepted love with wide open arms and desperation. “Love me, love me, love me!” So you did. And then it fell apart and left you shocked to the core. You realized that people could be cruel and break your heart. You realized that people could stop meaning the sweet things they said to you just yesterday. So when you go int...

mar 13 2018 ∞
mar 13 2018 +
  • 5/19/18: dreamt about him for the first time in a while. we got back together and i was happy to be able to see him, talk to him, and touch him. but when i woke up, i hated myself for feeling so weak whenever it comes to him. i think a part of me is still in love with him, and i was just using someone else to ignore those feelings without ever fully moving on and forgiving him. | "hi is it okay to be friends again" "YES EVERYTHING IS FINE"
  • 5/22/18: "we will have to give it more time, I think that healing for you must come from within first because of all the hurt that has been done to you. I think that you are on the right track to healing, just keep following it"
  • 5/26/18: "he's throwing up classic abuser red flags. it's only going to get worse. no good can come from this. he'll slowly break down your self confidence causing you to fe...
apr 19 2018 ∞
aug 1 2018 +

I: You were my light and darkness. You shone and taught me what it meant to be cared for and gave me many feelings such as warmth and feeling at ease. Then we grew apart: your light grew dimmer each day, and eventually faded. "I wanted to be there for you but I felt like you didn't like me."

II: The past few years have been hard for me, but working with you has really changed me for the better. Because of you, who is nothing but a bundle of light, I've felt better in ways that I can't comprehend. Watching you grow up has made me feel proud, because during your growth, I've grown too, and I have yet to thank you for that. I hope that when you're older, I can thank you properly for all you've done and will continue to do.

III: Thank you for being there for me when all my friends have left. We met online but it turns out you guys are so much be...

aug 17 2014 ∞
aug 8 2018 +