start: january 1st, 2023 ┊ end: september 28th, 2025. ┊ inspiration

— ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ℎ𝑎𝑏𝑖𝑡𝑠 ( 07/10 )

  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ practice loving-kindness meditation.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ practice mindfulness meditation.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ keep a gratitude journal.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ keep a dream journal.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ keep a journal to write my thoughts about life.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ practice speaking daily affirmations.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ practice eating food slowly and mindfully.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ carry a trinket that reminds me to ground myself.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ be the kind of person that carries a book everywhere.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ start taking the stairs more and the elevator less.

— ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ 𝑒𝑥𝑝𝑒𝑟𝑖𝑒𝑛𝑐𝑒𝑠 ( 04/10 )

  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ celebrate a personal victory or accomplishment.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ lay out a blanket in the garden and sleep under the stars.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ plant something from seed and see it grow until harvest.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ conquer an old fear and discover a new one.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ try five foods i supposedly dislike, and learn to love them.
    • ⤷ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ béchamel sauce. polenta. charentais.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ set a bird feeder or bird house in the garden.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ spend a whole afternoon just reading at the park.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ go to the opera, to the ballet, and to a concerto.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ watch the sunrise and the sunset in the same day.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ fall in love in a beautiful and healthy way.

— ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ 𝑚𝑒𝑛𝑡𝑎𝑙 ℎ𝑒𝑎𝑙𝑡ℎ ( 07/10 )

  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ treat myself with kindness.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ learn and practice neutral self-talk.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ learn how to accept compliments.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ learn how to admit my successes openly, to others.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ stop making self-deprecating jokes.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ set aside time to do things simply for fun.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ practice pleasant activity scheduling.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ spend time with myself and find comfort in being alone.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ have a trustworthy person who i can always talk to.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ learn how to be my own best friend.

— ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑤𝑜𝑟𝑙𝑑 ( 04/10 )

  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ sign-up & complete a sign language programme.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ sign-up & complete first aid training.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ make sure all my vaccinations are up to date.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ donate blood and/or plasma.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ donate warm clothes to a shelter.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ leave out food and water for stray animals.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ volunteer at a institution in my community.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ cook someone a hearty meal when they need it.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ learn how to decrease my ecological footprint.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ help an elderly neighbour with a task.

— ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ 𝑖𝑑𝑒𝑛𝑡𝑖𝑡𝑦 ( 03/10 )

  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ write about my future self in a present tense.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ write about who my heroes are and how they inspire me.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ pick a perfume i love and make it my signature scent.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ define my wine preference and start a collection.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ take a personal values accessment test.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ build a wardrobe of clothes that i like and enjoy wearing.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ take more photos, safekeep my memories for the future.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ give meaning to mundane daily practices.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ decorate my home & my body in ways authentic to me.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ keep notes of compliments that i've received from others.

— ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ 𝑠𝑒𝑙𝑓-𝑐𝑎𝑟𝑒 ( 04/10 )

  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ take a love-language test and use mine on myself.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ learn how to self-massage my hands and face.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ engage in some self-directed art therapy.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ seek out lighthearted activities.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ practice advocating for my wants & needs.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ make a playlist of my favourite songs and listen often.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ memorise a poem that makes me happy and recite it often.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ practice thanking my body for carrying me through the day.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ create and maintain a self-validation practice.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ write a letter to myself full of compliments & affirmations.

— ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ 𝑐𝑜𝑜𝑘𝑖𝑛𝑔 ( 01/10 )

  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ learn how to make gnocchi from scratch.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ learn how to make pizza margherita from scratch.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ learn how to make a homemade lasagne.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ learn how to make risotto al parmigiano.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ learn how to make a brazilian carrot cake.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ learn how to make arancini di riso.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ learn how to make a homemade quiche lorraine.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ learn how to make bobó de camarão.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ learn how to make panzerotti fritto.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ learn how to make gruyère & parmesan cheese soufflé.

— ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ ℎ𝑜𝑏𝑏𝑖𝑒𝑠 ( 03/10 )

  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ go to the opera at least 3 times a year.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ go to the ballet at least 3 times a year.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ go to a concerto at least 3 times a year.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ take a painting class.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ take a culinary class.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ attend a formula one grand prix in person.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ watch every grand prix of a formula one season.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ read at least 15 books in a year.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ read at least one poem a week for a whole year.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ journal at least once a week for a whole year.

— ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ 𝑙𝑖𝑓𝑒 𝑠𝑘𝑖𝑙𝑙𝑠 ( 03/10 )

  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ learn how to write in beautiful calligraphy.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ learn how to formally set a table.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ learn how to pop a champagne bottle.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ learn how to properly give a toast.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ learn how to use a knife like a chef.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ learn how to sew basic stiches by hand.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ learn how to sew & patch clothes by hand.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ learn how to french braid my own hair.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ learn how to recite at least five poems by heart.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ learn the words to at least five full arias.

— ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ 𝑓𝑖𝑙𝑚 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑙𝑖𝑡𝑒𝑟𝑎𝑡𝑢𝑟𝑒 ( 01/10 )

  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ read in search of lost time, by marcel proust.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ read war and peace by leo tolstoy.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ read the stranger, by albert camus.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ read madame bovary, by gustave flaubert.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ read crime and punishment, by fyodor dostoevsky.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ watch gone with the wind, by victor fleming.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ watch casablanca, by michael kurtis.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ watch it happened one night, by frank kapra.
  • ▨ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ watch roman holiday, by william wyler.
  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ watch romeo and juliet, by franco zeffirelli.

— ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑓𝑖𝑛𝑎𝑙 𝑡𝑎𝑠𝑘

  • ☐ ‏‏‎ ‎‏‏‎ be proud of myself at the end, regardless of completion.
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