be the bigger person.

• move on, you don't have to fully forgive them with a blind eye.. but holding grudges isn't healthy for you
• end the petty behavior, it's unnecessary
• don't think about what you could've done to make a situation better think about what you can do to make the situation better

show initiative to do and try new things.

• try new things
• start new hobbies
• try things before shutting it out completely
• make judgments with an open mindset

stop hurting yourself

• stop cutting yourself
• stop starving yourself
• stop bottling up your emotions
• stop using drugs
• learn healthy coping mechanism