2011--

  • understanding
  • provides good conversation
  • insightful; emotionally intelligent
  • honest, GENUINE
  • sense of humor
  • chemistry
  • good kisser
  • "marches to beat of own drum"

2015--

  • respects women and womens choice
  • loyal
  • action-oriented
  • accepts me as I am, yet helps guide me towards self-improvement but does not force change
  • independent thinker

2017--

  • communicative
    • emotionally secure enough that they will reach out first
    • emotional intelligence
    • clear in what they mean
  • not stingy: whining about going dutch (you should have big boy money and big boy money habits)
  • not manipulative, or someone that psychoanalyzes you
  • not critical on my fashion choice (something I must practice too)
  • realizes that we are 2 flawed individuals
  • interest in people
  • sensitive

2019–

  • makes me feel secure
  • can openly talk about my emotions without feeling ridiculed, honest conversations
  • strong emotional awareness
  • accepting
  • compatible levels of weirdness (up to my level is best)
  • late night convos/being last (or one of them) person he talks to before falling asleep
  • afternoon texts
  • makes the first move, wears heart on their sleeve
oct 4 2011 ∞
mar 21 2019 +