Maggie:

• A man who is consistent, available, emotionally, spiritually, financially • We inspire the absolute best in each other • A relationship that feels like a safe, grounding, nurturing feeling that represents home • A relationship that is patient, tolerant, kind, a man that gets me, understands me when I don't understand myself • Our communication practice is fluid, smooth, open, clear, transparent, honest, vulnerable, a raw connection of the minds • A man who sees me, accepting of me being myself and where I am, understands my darkness, a friend before a lover • A man who loves himself and proud of himself and his accomplishments • A man with a gentle heart but sharp mind and healthy boundaries • A man of his word, respectful, with integrity and same principles as me • A man who has travelled the world and brings compassion and understanding when talking to another • A smell I can't resist, great kisser, knows my body, he knows when to fuck and when to make love • A man who responds and not reacts, a mindful listener, speaks his truth and accepts when I speak mine; we both can be heard • A man who is his word, keep his word and follows through • When faced with challenges in the relationship, allows for the appropriate working through, knows when to step back, brings his emotional maturity when it gets challenging, gives me the benefit of the doubt, always have each other’s back • A man who takes ownership, is accountable, stays present • Discover new aspects of each other that would make us fall in love slow and steady over time, our love would change over time • A man who would dance with me in the kitchen in the middle of a mess, would sing with me • A man I feel utterly safe with • A man who would love my pets • A relationship free of passive aggressive interactions • A man who always appreciates me under any circumstance

‘I am doing a quick poll, pls help: name 3-4 qualities for a man who will be my best match’ Responses from my friends:

  • Someone who pays attention, caring and giving, loving, compassionate, good sense of humor and sharing the load (Karen)
  • Appreciates music; brave, international, smart, 8-10 happiness level, engaged in whatever he does, independent yet considerate (Aline)
  • Steady, Challenging, Must have widespread integrity, Someone with more forward/powerful than you - but still changes their ways as you build together, Powerful energy (Jon)
  • Travel enthusiast, funny, gentle yet firm (sister)
  • In my humble opinion, since you asked. I think you need a man who's not afraid to swim across the ocean to find your secluded island...to be coming into your world to know you better. That speaks to the courage to be with you in your world in your terms without being afraid to be rejected at times or challenged or hurt in the process of getting to know the core of multilayered Love, Intellect and Curiosity that is Mee-World. You also need this man to be willing to step into your world on your terms just like going to the Oracle of Delphi he must already know the answer) to be strong enough to challenge you back without hurting you and turning you into a fleeting gazelle. A man who can listen with his heart and with his body to help you develop trust In want you two have. This is not something you can put in a poll where you can quickly describe yourself on a dating site so I had to think about it. You need a shaman and a magician, The Eros to your Psyche, not afraid to be vulnerable. Somebody who can stir in you: trust vulnerability and delight. (Ligia)
  • Lol Maggie you can't design a man he's not a burrito. Open your heart and let someone stable and slightly boring with a secure attachment style that you have insane chemistry with into your life ♥️♥️♥️ (Geneva)
  • Communication, respect, loyalty, attractive pheromones (Jerica)
  • High eq 3-4x; Someone who can read u. Reads u deeply (V)
  • 1.) Understands you most of the time., 2.) Is not intimidated when he does not., 3.) Totally in love with u (Steve)
  • Is this question posted on the internet somewhere? How did I miss it?? You need a man who is strong and independent. Someone who won't be put off by your own strong/independent nature, who can match it, support it, give it space and really allow you to be you without losing himself. (Kelsey)
  • strong, intellectually curious, able to bring balance in my life (Mirza)
mar 2 2019 ∞
apr 22 2019 +
user picture Kelsey: Is this question posted on the internet somewhere? How did I miss it?? You need a man who is strong and independent. Someone who won't be put off by your own strong/independent nature, who can match it, support it, give it space and really allow you to be you without losing himself. mar 4 2019
user picture Miglena: hahaha, not posted anywhere, i forgot to ask you!