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What's Changed? Marked off one under Animals and one under Miscellaneous; added one to Miscellaneous

  • Relationships
    • Romantic
      • Get engaged.
      • Marry.
      • Get to the point where I can say I am no longer in love with Cole.
      • Fall in love again.
      • Have a boyfriend.
      • Have a boyfriend I am in love with.
      • Enjoy reading a book while someone I love (romantically) is reading a book with me.
      • Go through the questions.
      • Have a sleep-over date (with no sex involved).
      • Go on a road trip with your significant other.
      • Visit a significant other's home town.
      • Have him come to your hometown.
      • Go on a cemetery date.
      • Buy a gift that costs over $100.
      • Break up.
      • Go on a great date with a Capricorn.
      • Go on a great date with a Scorpio.
      • Have a Scorpio boyfriend.
      • Live alone with a partner.
    • Friendship
      • Have a female best friend again.
      • See a friend of mine use Listography.
      • At age twenty or over, spend the night with a friend.
      • Nerd out about clothes with a friend.
      • Rave about the person I love with a friend.
      • Watch the sunrise with a friend.
      • Rent a place with friends.
    • Others, or a Combination of the Above
      • Have at least one pen pal in America (at least ten letters exchanged).
      • Have at least one international pen pal (at least five letters exchanged).
      • Watch a meteor shower with someone I am close to.
      • Spend five straight hours talking on the phone with someone.
      • Help an exchange student in America (whether as a part of an exchange family, a friend, just online, whatever).
      • Have a mud fight/play in the mud with at least one other person.
      • Have a wonderful conversation with a stranger in person, after which we develop at least a decent bond.
      • Play in a pile of leaves with someone.
      • Contact someone with my name (exact spelling).
      • Contact someone who was born on the twenty-ninth (of any month).
      • Contact someone who was born on April 29, my birthday.
      • Have a "tea party."
      • Help someone fulfill something on their bucket list.
      • Meet up with someone that you first knew online (besides Ivory).
      • Go skinny dipping with someone.
      • Watch the sunrise with someone I love.
      • Dress up with Halloween with someone.
      • Eat candy on Halloween with someone.
      • With someone I love, go to a graveyard at night.
      • From sixty different countries, talk to someone there for at least three months.
      • Have at least five people as friends for a year, with each one being from a different country.
      • Call someone you don't know and have a conversation with them (even if it's short).
      • Make conversation (whether small talk or deep) with fifty strangers.
      • Have a really "manly man" say that he's a sweety-poo.
  • Home and Living
    • Live in a house!
    • Be able to decorate a room however I want--if I want to make the walls one big doodle, let me do it!
    • Have a bedroom that I really love.
    • Have a beautiful garden.
    • Have a personal library. <3
    • Have a bookshelf dedicated to things that I have written and worked on (for example, notes, poetry, stories, etc.).
    • Have flowers inside (for at least a month).
    • Have a plant inside (for at least a month).
    • Have a pool.
      • Watch the sunrise in my pool.
      • Watch the sunset in my pool.
      • Stargaze at night in my pool.
    • Live by myself for a time.
    • Live outside of Mississippi.
    • Save up to $1,000.
    • Save up to $2,000.
    • Save up to $3,000.
    • Save up to $4,000.
    • Save up to $5,000.
    • Save up to $10,000.
    • Be saving for retirement before you are twenty-one.
    • Move somewhere entirely new.
    • Move to Colorado.
    • Other Things to Own
      • Lace gloves.
      • Silk gloves.
      • Lovely hats.
      • More skirts than pants.
      • A fair bit of dresses.
        • A yellow dress.
        • A brown dress.
      • At least one expensive piece of jewelry.
      • Own at least five really pretty paintings.
      • Have a collection of bells. (Interestingly, I've learned that I seem to have inherited my fascination with bells from my maternal grandmother. . . .)
      • Have a collection of snow globes.
      • Have at least one wind chime.
  • Educational
    • Learn how to swim.
    • Learn a language at a conversational level.
    • Learn how to garden (especially flowers).
    • Pay off what I owe the college.
    • Learn to speak with a good British accent.
      • Fool someone into believing that I'm not from America.
      • With a friend, fool someone into believing that I'm their English girlfriend.
    • Learn to be a better conversationalist in person.
    • Attend a class that isn't for school or college.
    • Be able to recognize several types of trees.
  • Travel
    • United States of America
      • Write a letter to "the first person who finds this," which will include how awesome they are and a tidbit of information about myself. Must be left somewhere outside of Mississippi--a bathroom stall, a mailbox, whatever.
      • Find the weir Ivory was going to show me but never got the chance to do so before she died.
      • Travel to each of the states
      • New York City
        • Go shopping in New York City
        • Stay in a motel or hotel (not too crummy one)
        • Eat New York style pizza.
        • Attend a Yankees baseball game.
        • Eat a pretzel.
        • Visit Little Italy.
      • Los Angeles
      • Ride down the Golden Gate Bridge.
      • Pick a small town in America in a distant state and travel there. Road trip!
        • Once there, eat at a local restaurant.
        • Perhaps attend a church service, local event, anything of that nature.
        • Visit whatever "highlight" that town might have, such as the park.
      • Return to my home town and walk to the cemetery.
      • Be in New England when the leaves are changing.
      • Visit the Georgia Aquarium.
    • World
      • England
        • See Big Ben.
        • Stay in a relatively small town, that way you can explore more freely.
      • Germany
      • Japan
        • Urban Japan.
        • Traditional Japan.
      • Italy
        • Draw in Italy.
        • Paint in Italy.
      • Australia
      • Belgium
        • Eat Belgian chocolate.
        • Eat a Belgian waffle.
      • France
        • Visit a cafe while listening to traditional French music.
      • Stay in a different country for at least a month.
      • Stay in a different country for a year.
      • Celebrate a different culture's holiday in that country.
    • Other
      • Be in Space.
      • Be in a submarine under the ocean--far, far down.
      • Fly in a hot air balloon.
      • Have visited fifteen major cities.
      • Fly in an airplane.
      • Travel by train.
      • Ride on a bus.
      • Visit a botanical garden.
      • Travel by myself.
      • Drive somewhere with no idea where you're going.
  • Arts and Creative Endeavors
    • Learn to play an instrument.
    • Learn how to make deep-fried Oreos and love the crap out of them.
    • Learn how to cook every single dish in a cookbook (with the exception of anything that contains lobster or, if I find out that there's anything I'm allergic too, that can be an exception as well)
    • Take a picture once every day in the same spot for 30 days.
    • Go to an art museum.
    • Write a poem on a sticky note and leave it in a business.
    • Learn how to make stromboli.
    • Write something with the only light being that of the full moon.
    • Watch a slam poem in person, in honor of Ivory.
    • Fill out ten journals that have at least one-hundred pages (but preferably more), and have all ten journals kept with you.
    • Finish an artistic challenge that you feel actually helps you to grow in that art form.
  • Aesthetics
    • Have long hair (to the middle of my back).
    • Find a product that really works for my hair.
    • Achieve the pale skin I want.
    • Don't get sunburned (or a tan) in a summer.
    • Learn to really appreciate the sunsets.
    • Learn to really appreciate the afternoons.
    • Learn to really appreciate waxing/fuller moons.
    • See a white Christmas.
    • Dye my hair . . .
      • cobalt
      • pastel blue
      • pastel purple
    • Stand under, behind, or directly in front of a waterfall.
    • Enjoy a meteor shower.
    • Enjoy a "big" meteor shower.
    • Wear a flower in my hair and sit somewhere pretty.
    • Own a quill and ink well.
  • Animals
    • See a bat in clear view.
    • See a fox.
    • See a slender loris.
    • Touch a deer.
      • I GOT TO FEED AND PET TWO
    • See a spotted genet.
    • See a kinkajou.
    • See an owl.
    • See a white-cheeked gibbon.
    • See a siamang.
    • Hear a siamang's song.
    • See an eel.
    • See a porcupine pufferfish.
    • See a red panda.
    • See a komodo dragon.
    • See an azure poison dart frog.
    • See an African pygmy falcon.
    • See a stingray.
    • See a jellyfish.
    • Face my fears and touch a snake.
  • Occult and Paranormal
    • Find out what Jasper's mom read in the confidential files.
    • Go ghost hunting (again).
    • Go to a place that is said to be haunted in Mississippi.
    • Go to a place that is said to be haunted in England.
    • Stay at a place (e.g., a hotel) that is said to be haunted.
    • Go to Pilot Knob Cemetery in Marion, Kentucky.
    • Go to a professional astrologist.
    • Have my palms read.
    • Have my Tarot cards read.
    • Meet someone who is a Taurus Sun, Capricorn Moon, and Pisces Ascendant (like myself) OR a Scorpio Sun, Cancer Moon, and Virgo Ascendant (each sign being polar opposite).
    • Feel close to members of each sign of the Zodiac.
    • Feel semi-close to people of each life path.
    • Meet a life path 11.
    • Meet a life path 22.
    • Meet a life path 33.
    • Introduce someone to numerology and get them hooked.
    • Introduce someone to astrology and get them hooked.
    • Meet someone whose "big three points" in their birth chart are the same (e.g., Sagittarius Sun, Sagittarius Moon, Sagittarius Ascending).
      • It was Capricorn
    • Celebrate every new moon in a year.
    • Celebrate every full moon in a year.
    • Celebrate twelve full moons and twelve new moons astrologically.
      • Aries S - Aries NM, Libra FM
      • Taurus S - Taurgus NM, Scorpio FM
      • Gemini S - Gemini NM, Sagittarius FM
      • Cancer S - Cancer NM, Capricorn FM
      • Leo S - Leo NM, Aquarius FM
      • Virgo S - Virgo NM, Pisces FM
      • Libra S - Libra NM, Aries FM
      • Scorpio S - Scorpio NM, Taurus FM
      • Sagittarius S - Sagittarius NM, Gemini FM
      • Capricorn S - Capricorn NM, Cancer FM
      • Aquarius S - Aquarius NM, Leo FM
      • Pisces S - Pisces NM, Virgo FM
    • Have a dogwood wand.
    • Have an ash wand.
    • Have a bowl full of crystals in each room of the house.
  • Angels
    • Open five people up to the angels.
      • Mitch
      • my mother
    • Invoke Archangel Gabriel.
    • Invoke Archangel Uriel.
    • Invoke Archangel Chamuel (again).
    • Invoke Archangel Michael.
    • Invoke Archangel Azrael.
    • Invoke Archangel Ariel.
    • Listen to How to Hear Your Angels by Doreen Virtue all the way through.
    • Using clairsentience, feel the angels.
    • Using claircognizance, know the angels.
    • Using clairvoyance, see the angels.
    • Using clairaudience, hear the angels.
    • Establish a bond with my guardian angel.
    • Either discover my guardian angel's preferred name, or give them one.
    • Find someone else, either online or in real life, who knows about angels.
    • Attend a workshop, seminar, or something of that nature that talk about angels.
    • Get a guardian angel figure.
    • Get an Archangel Michael statue.
    • Get an Archangel Gabriel statue.
  • Nerd Power
    • Mark off every item in my Harry Potter Bucket List.
    • Experience virtual reality (non-gaming).
    • Experience virtual reality (gaming).
    • Reach ten-thousand posts on a forum.
    • Play my childhood game, Banjo-Tooie.
    • HAVE GOOD INTERNET AGAIN. <3
    • Have an author of a book respond to a fandom question.
    • Write a fan letter.
    • Have five-hundred lists on Listography.
    • Listen to a podcast.
    • Be a fan of a podcast.
  • Health
    • Record the things that made me happy for at least an entire year, and then let other people see them.
    • Drink only water for a week.
    • Drink only water for a month.
    • Avoid desserts and candy for a month.
    • Run and/or jog for two hours.
    • Walk for seven hours in one day (bathroom breaks/etc. allowed).
    • Meditate in the sunrise.
    • Meditate in the sunset.
    • Meditate under the stars.
    • Meditate in the rain.
    • Meditate in the snow.
    • Meditate in strong wind.
    • Return to being as happy as I was before Cole.
  • Miscellaneous
    • Sky dive.
    • Find another fossil.
    • Leave $20-100 in a stranger's mailbox.
    • Give $20+ in a single tip.
    • Have an excellent conversation with someone in person, especially if I'll never see that person again.
    • Donate a good deal of any of the following outside of the holidays: toys/books, food, clothes, money.
    • Write a letter to my future self (either virtually or in paper), but don't open it until ten years have passed.
    • Try everything on a menu (unless it's lobster, alcoholic, or I happen to be allergic).
    • Face my fears and touch the remains of the departed.
    • Go skinny dipping alone.
    • Spend ten hours outside in a single day.
    • Find out what Native American tribe (if any) I have blood/marriage ties too.
    • Write a passionate love letter to someone I love, and leave it in some business building.
    • Create a list of romantic tips ("how to not do what I did") and give it to a teenager OR leave it where they can find it.
    • Visit a graveyard by myself at night.
    • Be hired somewhere.
    • Quit a job.
    • Go to a bar.
    • Go to a club.
    • Go to a lounge.
    • Learn how to trust people after trauma.
    • Learn how to not turn to avoidance coping.
    • Complete at least fifty-one goals from 101 Things in 1001 Days
    • Attend a seminar.
    • Attend a webinar.
    • Join a protest.
    • Join a protest I am very passionate about.
    • See Donald Trump be president for one term (or less).
    • See the electoral college end.
    • See the addition of the fifty-first state.
    • Complete everything in my Queer Bucket List

Goals I'm Working On

jan 19 2016 ∞
nov 24 2019 +
user picture Snow: This is so organized and pretty! You reminded me of some things that should be on MY bucket list, too! apr 28 2016
user picture Venus: Thank you so much! I'm glad that it's helped in some way! ^_^ may 1 2016
user picture a ~: If you want a penpal from Germany, let me know :P jun 8 2016
user picture Venus: I would love that, actually! I've always thought that you're insanely cool, so I feel honored! XD
user picture juno: It's so organized and pretty :) jul 24 2016
user picture Venus: Thank you so much! By the way, I love your Listography's background!
user picture rose: "Own a collection of creepy dolls. " Have you heard of Blythe dolls? They have big heads because they have this mechanism where you pull a string and their eyes change color and direction. They're really adorable, but people find them very creepy. I used to collect them, not so much anymore. oct 30 2016
user picture petra: This is the best bucket list i've ever seen! it inspired a few more items on my own! :) feb 17 2018