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What a beautiful face I have found in this place that is circling all round the sun. What a beautiful dream that could flash on the screen in a blink of an eye and be gone from me. Let me hold it close and keep it here with me. And one day we will die and our ashes will fly from the aeroplane over the sea. But for now we are young, let us lay in the sun and LIST every beautiful thing we can see.

listography NEW JOURNAL
Ryan movies (In theaters, TV series, or docs)
autobio (Birthdays)
spiritual (Notable deaths at the end of 2022)
family (Visits from (Dead) Loved Ones)
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Pet peeve (sexist) comments over the years?

  • He's why I have tattoos.
    • I had ten tattoos before meeting him (including tattoos on my breasts). I have more tattoos because I have a tattoo artist living with me.
  • He's why I like punk.
    • I still don't listen to american hardcore but I've always listened to 1970s punk from the U.S. and London, and turned him on to an era of punk and post punk he had never listened to before. Strangely, I think he'd say I had a bigger influence on his music tastes than the other way around.
  • I'm influenced by his work.
    • He had never read graphic novels. I introduced him and encouraged him to write (and I edited and contributed to the projects).
  • He influenced my style.
    • I renewed his interest in fun fashion, and old band tees, because I collected old vintage tees for years. My fun with fashion has evolved non-stop over the years from goth to gap depending on my mood and whether I was in grad school.
  • He turned me onto nightlife.
    • I owned an indie club (booking queer, punk, indie, comedy, djs, etc) for a year and participated in the bay area music scene for ten years (photographing it, touring with bands, making videos, etc). Music and nightlife have been a big aspect of my life.

We are a good match.

jan 11 2023 ∞
feb 19 2023 +