p l u s

• tall (or of average height)
• loves me more than I love them
• financially literate
• older than me (and looks older, too)
• tall forehead

m i n u s

• only child
• part of another religion...
  • they have a strong existing relationship with and a marriage would damage that connection
  • I do not wish to convert to and would be required of me, either by the religion or the partner