If you are a/support m-spec gays, or m-spec lesbians. (Someone who is mspec whilst being lesbian/gay, like.. pansexual gays, etc.)

If you are an AFAB transwoman/transfem or AMAB transman/transmasc.

If you erase queer characters by shipping them with opposite gender, or genderbending lesbian/cinthean relationships to make them straight.

If you genderbend transgender characters.

If you ignore or erase canonical LGBTQ identities.

If you read yaoi/bl whilst being a woman, OR reading yuri/gl whilst being a man.

If you fetishize queer couples.

If you believe aro/ace people aren't LGBTQ.

You are an endogenic / non-traumagenic systems, or support them.

You are an active reality checker.