• There are so many reasons why people make this choice. But a core theme leading to estrangement is realizing that your mother's dysfunctional behavior has demanded an enormous cost to your mental/emotional well-being and you're simply no longer willing to pay that cost. I believe that this isn't something chosen in a flippant, cavalier way, but rather it is often a choice made after years of trying every other possible avenue to preserve the connection and see it evolve to a higher level. At a certain point, you may reach a crossroads where the cost is too much, and you have to make a choice.

• Our greatest fear is that we will be alone. But the aloneness that we fear already happened in the trauma of our families. 

• The grief doesn't mean you've made the wrong choice. It's actually a sign of health and healing. Keep yourself grounded in the new paradigm that gave you the strength to leave the toxic connection. If you don't, you could get pulled back through guilt or shame. It's so important to get lots of support and give yourself time and space to process all the emotions that come with this choice. Ground yourself in exactly why you're doing this and use it as an opportunity to birth you into a new paradigm in your life.

• Estrangement doesn't necessarily mean you don't love your family. It doesn't mean you're not grateful for the good things they gave you. It just means you need space to live your own life the way you want to live it. Women who feel no choice but to go no-contact with their dysfunctional mothers create the break because it's the only way to send the powerful message that: "Mother, your life is your own responsibility as my life is mine. I refuse to be sacrificed on the altar of your pain. I refuse to be a casualty of your war. Even if you are incapable of understanding me, I must go my own way. I must choose to truly live."

Everybody's Talking About Jamie (2021) White Christmas (1954) Cinderella (1997) Purple Rain (1984) Sing Street (2016) Sunshine on Leith (2013) Fame (1980)8 Women (2002) Once (2006) Hedwig and the Angry Inch (2001) Cabaret (1972) Fiddler on the Roof (1971) The Umbrellas of Cherbourg (1964) Funny Face (1957) Guys and Dolls (1955) An American in Paris (1951) Oklahoma! (1955) All That Jazz (1979) Annie (1982) Earth Girls Are Easy (1989) Meet the Feebles (1990) Cry Baby (1990) Tommy (1975) The Jazz Singer (1927) Gentlemen Prefer Blondes (1953) Sing Street (2016 A Star Is Born (1954)42nd Street (1933) Victor/Victoria (1982 Bye Bye Birdie (1963) Fame (1980) Oliver! (1968) Pennies From Heaven (1981) The Blues Brothers (1980 Dancer in the Dark (2000)

me indiquem livros

• Tempo de Tempestade - Andrzej Sapowsk
• O Último Desejo - Andrzej Sapowsk
• A Espada do Destino - Andrzej Sapowsk
• O Sangue dos Elfos - Andrzej Sapowsk
• Tempo do Desprezo - Andrzej Sapowsk
• Batismo de Fogo - Andrzej Sapowsk
• A Torre da Andorinha - Andrzej Sapowsk
• A Senhora do Lago - Parte I - Andrzej Sapowsk
• A Senhora do Lago - Parte II - Andrzej Sapowsk
• Caminho sem Retorno - Andrzej Sapowsk
• Tempo da Tempestade - Andrzej Sapowsk
• Gatunas: A amizade não tem preço, o resto a gente pode roubar - Kirsten Smith
• Anne de Green Gables - L. M. Montegomery
• Sorry not sorry - Naya Rivera
• O poder do hábito

• 12 Monkeys
• Good Witch
• The Alienist
• The Lizzie Bornden Chronicles
• Alias Grace
• Derry Girls
• Altered Carbon
• The Bletchley Circle
• Sick Note
• Wanderlust
• Mad Men
• Versace
• One Day At the Time
• Cable Girls
• Crazy Ex Girlfriend
• Always a Witch
• Sex and the city
• Glitch
• Hemlock Groove
• Grimm
• Slasher

Sweeney Todd Rent Matilda the Musical The Book of Mormon Blood Brothers West Side Story Guys & Dolls Priscilla Queen of the Desert Jesus Christ Superstar Once Carousel Cats From Here to Eternity Billy Elliot Cabaret Company Hairspray Merrily We Roll Along My Fair Lady Evita Jersey Boys Sunset Boulevard Chess Chicago Gypsy Hair The Sound of Music Spring Awakening Starlight Express Sunday in the Park with George Into the Woods The Producers Top Hat A Chorus Line A Little Night Music Avenue Q Love Never Dies Mary Poppins Oklahoma Oliver! Chitty Chitty Bang Bang Crazy For You Fiddler on the Roof Ghost Hello Dolly Kiss Me Kate La Cage Aux Folles Next to Normal Parade Return to the Forbidden Planet Rock of Ages The King & I The Rocky Horror Show We Will Rock You42nd Street A Funny Thing Happened on the Way to the Forum The Light Princess Betty Blue Eyes Charlie and the Chocolate Factory Jerry Sp...

livros físicos

• Minhas Plantas: Paisagismo para Todos - Carol Costa
• Coleção Heróis do Olimpo - Rick Riordan
• Coleção Magnus Chase - Rick Riordan
• Coleção Provações de Apolo - Rick Riordan
• Green Witch

jogos

• um ano de membership
• celeste
• dragon quest builders
• house flipper

stuff

• capinha para Kindle
• furador cogumelo (discbound)

• dente de leão
• flor de lavanda com a palavra "enough"
• flores na coxa direita (cicatrizes)
• raposa na coxa esquerda <soon as possible>
• sakura nas costas (atrás das duas tatuagens) <viajar>
• ✔ vulpix no tornozelo interno esquerdo <quando me formar>
• desenhar uma forma de gato
• pata de cachorro

• Moulin Rouge (2001 - movie) ☆☆☆☆☆
• Chicago (2002 - movie) ☆☆☆☆☆
• Nine (2009 - movie) ☆☆☆
• Hairspray (2007 - movie) ☆☆☆☆
• Les Miserables (2012 - movie) ☆☆☆☆☆
• The Phantom of the Opera (2004 - movie) ☆☆☆☆
• In the Heights (2021 - movie) ☆☆☆☆☆
• West Side Story (1961 - movie) ☆☆☆
• Across the Universe (2007 - movie) ☆☆☆☆
• Hamilton (2016 - movie) ☆☆☆
• Pitch Perfect (2012 - movie) ☆☆☆
• Pitch Perfect 2 (2015 - movie) ☆☆
• Pitch Perfect 3 (2017 - movie) ☆☆
• La La Land (2016 - movie) ☆
• Willy Wonka & the Chocolate Factory (1971 - movie) ☆☆☆

• Wicked (theater 2013 - ptbr) ☆☆☆☆☆
• SIX (2019 - youtube) ☆☆☆☆☆☆
• Legally Blond (2014 - youtube) ☆☆☆☆
• The Lion King (theater 2013 - ptbr) ☆☆☆☆