Emotional anguish regarding integration?

• Lost of friends, family and romantic loved ones.
• Lost of skills, functioning could become unstable, the 'parts' were much greater than the 'whole.'
• Identity confusion after alters merge. partial or full.
• Being unable to handle everything, like a singlet is supposed to.

other thoughts. // just in our opinion, we want to list everyone's thoughts in our sys clearly on it.

• Sometimes sought out because they don't want to be around anymore, we view this to be suic*dal thinking.
• Integration doesn't solve our issues, it just gets rid of us. Why did/do people think it solves our issues?? Our pluralness can be hard to balance but our issues offer doesn't come from that but other things.

Note: we are planning on doing partial, only it is for those willing to in March&'s group and Meracle's group.