ik a lot of the things listed in my dnis are very specific and some, if not, most count as my own opinion or just straight up, plain common sense, but its all just for my personal comfort. im also too lazy to put an 'opinions' section and i just really love making lists. similar applies to my byf/notes/disclaimers section

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• think animal cruelty is more important then human lives/think animals are better then people (it's not cool or you being ‘better’, it makes you look like an insensitive piece of shit)
• call literal children/kids/babies ‘demons’, ‘monsters’, ect (weird but you guys need to go outside and learn some common decency)
• you post/support memes that make fun of/forward bigotry against marginalized groups (ex. f*mb*y hooters)
• steal/edit/reposts people's artwork without their permission/think artists having expensive commissions is “selfish”/think art posted by artists is “free range”/overall disrespect to artists who make a living (unless the artist is shitty themselves)
• support/participate in whitevember, drawingwhilewhite, and other hateful forms of art
• ageist/make "boomers should die from [insert illness]" jokes/posts. they aren't funny
• classist/elitist/make fun of people for being broke/poor
• you're overly religious (this applies to christians and catholics only; mormons don't even bother, you guys fucking suck)
• you’re a part of the tcc (true crime AND teacher crush community)/fetishize/romanticize IRL serial killers or any serial killer really
• indulge in media that portrays horrible shit in a good light (obviously)
• make those edgy, adult edits of sanrio characters or any harmless/children media
• support cringe culture (meaning calling kids "cringe" for making self-inserts and mary sue ocs, not supporting shitty media like homestuck & other harmful medias)
• make fun of people's triggers/purposely trigger them
• think DID is fake
• think alters are kins and fronting is ‘kinshifting’
• make fun of body hair, big noses, and other "ugly features"/think vitiligo and other "special snowflake" conditions are a "tumblr trend"
• don't think freedom of speech has limits/use it as an excuse to defend/spread bigotry
• against gun control
• think people with npd/sociopaths/low emphathy are inherently harmful/abusive
• honestly think "karen", "cracker", ect is a slur
• invalidate/blame/general bigotry towards victims of csa, sexual assault, rape, ect
• think racism, homophobia, other real world problems and just shitty stuff are "discourse"/"drama"/are "opinions"
• think a irredeemable media/a media created by a irredeemable person is consumable bc a person that is being portrayed in the media badly supports it/support the person/says it's ok
• indulge in celebrity worshipping/think celebrities, anyone "higher up" or with a large platform can't do any wrong
• don't support relief/bail/memorial/freedom/community/medical + healthcare funds (not like not having money to support, but are bigoted or being an asshole for the reason behind the fund)
• think donation posts for a person in need is for clout/the money is "too much"
• think petitions for serious causes "do nothing"
• you're white and claim to be the race of your kins
• think any serious movement irl/online is a one time event/use the movement as your "aesthetic"/get clout/it's not happening to you/your country and therefore saying "it's not your problem"
• think marginalized/minorities lives are "politics"
• think pitbulls and rottweilers are inherently dangerous and violent/sharks are "infesting" waters, generally thinking dangerous looking animals are inherently violent
• don't think pedos, nazis, ect should die. if you don't, then you got very low morals, my dude
• support websites like kiwifarms, ao3, waterfall, ect
• make fandoms/fanfic/fiction as your entire personality
• you kin shitty characters
• add dumb shit to people's vent posts or say smth about low empathy on posts about being considerate/respectful towards people
• support/romanticize/glorify any form of slavery (i can't believe i have to put this in)
• call the lgbt community "qu**r community" or "lgbtqia community"
• think polyam people are inherently lgbt
• don't acknowledge that qu**r is a slur/get pissy when it's tagged #q slur/think cishet aro/aces can reclaim it (i'm absolutely fine with people using q**er to identify themselves)
• think nbi (nonbinary) is a third gender
• you think shit like bi/pan gay men/lesbians exist
• erase a character's canon identity/orientation
• ignoring people & insisting someone is bad for using a slur even though the person said they're gay/black/ect explicitly
• think trans people can't be transphobic, gay people can't be homophobic, ect
• poc making jokes about their race is racist, ect
• think the split attraction model (SAM) works for people not ace/aro
• think nblw/nblm shouldn't be in wlw/mlm spaces
• think the saying "i hate men" equivalent to homophobia/transphobia/put cishet men on the same level as trans/nb men, gay/bi men, ect
• think allosexual, monosexual, binary, or "straight-passing" privilege exists
• you're whitepassing and say ethnic slurs
• you ID as homoflexible/heteroflexible or any similar "-flexible" orientation
• use micro orientations
• you ID as genders from different cultures when you’re not in that culture
• you ID as "pangender" or any other identity that incorporates "all genders"
• call people "antis". i will not take you seriously
• use the stag/doe/tomcat or pigeon/dove/crow terms
• you use/support the adt, labrys, demisexual, demiromantic flag or any flag that is made by shitty people or the flag has bad imagery/meanings behind it
• you use the terms nblnb, wlnb, mlnb or any similar abbreviation
• you ask trans people if they're amab or afab. it's so fucking rude
• think slurs are just "quirky" words marginalized people can use
• are a endogenic/natural or tulpa system or think systems don't need early childhood trauma
• support/romanticize cults/make any kind of cult jokes/are into or run a cultcore blog
• support/romanticize cannibalism
• think people with kinks are "oppressed"
• you ask people about their mental health when it's none of your business/make fun of the mentally ill and/or their harmless coping mechanisms/don't respect boundaries overall
• think people with ocd/intrusive thoughts are violent/murderers
• you're an adult and hc children/kids/toddlers/autistic/autistic-coded characters as ace/aro
• support mpreg lol
• you're an adult and draw gore/guro of kids
• have a discourse blog of any kind and of any stance
• are a 'dni ignorer' or hate follow me lol
• you support genderbends/genderswaping, "rule 63", sex-swapping
• speak over marginalized groups when you're white/cis/ect
• you're a performative ally to marginalized groups (post those 'loving trans women juice' memes, 'black lives matter are rad as heck uwu' type of shit)/think saying you simply support a marginalized group is activism/solitary
• don't hold accountability for your bigotry because you "respect/support" whatever marginalized group
• being a dick to marginalized people hc'ing characters as gay/trans. Let people have fun ffs
• misgender trans people on purpose bc you don't like them/don't make an effort in using a person's pronouns/ pronoun "denier"/pronoun hater
• out someone as gay/trans bc you dislike them (this is incredibly shitty and if you did this, absolutely fuck you)
• think bi excludes trans & nonbinary people/being bi is inherently transphobic/think pan is more "progressive"
• believe/use the quote 'hearts not parts'
• derailing a 'do not derail' post lol (ex. commenting 'support trans men too' on a 'support trans women' exclusive post)
• exclude lesbians from lgbt posts (its the lesbophobia, love)
• think all lesbians are terfs/violent and aggressive
• you call yourself a weeb, weeabo, koreaboo, otaku or brony
• you identify as a """fandom mom"""
• you use the words "waifu" and/or "husbando"
• think yuri is on par with yaoi/lump in gay men/mlm enjoying gay/bl content (aka fudanshi) with actual fujoshis
• you call yourself a baby when you're an adult, overall just baby-fying yourself when you're an adult. it's creepy
• you call yourself a "yandere"
• you use terms like "spirit animal", use dreamcatchers as an "aesthetic", basically culturally appropriate native/Indigenous/Native terms/traditions/don't think Indigenous/Native people should hunt to sustain themselves, just anti-native in general
• don't support abolishing prisons (as in the conditions that made prisons the solution to problems then the buildings itself)
• you compare exclusionists to literal nazis, pedos, terfs ect or call them “REGs” or "aphobes"
• think any interaction with a kid and adult is predatory
• you fetishize lgbt, poc, basically any marginalized group (ex. making useless lesbian jokes)
• you think cishet pride exists (yes this includes cishet ace/aro pride)
• think emotional/verbal abuse isn't on par with physical abuse
• think someone calling out another makes them a better person IF they are bigoted themselves
• think overpopulation is real
• don't think climate change is real
• you make triggered, "attack helicopter", "did you assume my gender" or any other stupid jokes of that nature. grow tf up
• use "dark humor" (school shooting jokes, rape jokes, ect)
• you are a part of or support/pro MOGAI or any other replacement community for LGBT (identifying as stargender or any other harmless nb genders is ok tho!; here is a pastebin & video as to why
• manipulate & gaslight people (obviously) & know you are doing so
• encourage internalized LGBTphobia and make it harder for young LGBT people to figure themselves out