And their definitions in case anyone A. is wondering or B. is concerned I'm into some immoral shit
- Abduction as seduction - a kink where the abductor/kidnapper treats the victim in a loving manner.
- Acarophilia - arousal from scratching.
- Agrexophilia - sexual arousal from the knowledge that other people may become aware of the lovemaking, for example by being overheard or seen.
- Anasteemaphilia - a sexual attraction to significantly taller or shorter people. [Taller, in my case]
- Begging - kink for begging and pleading (to have sex, for release/orgasm, to perform an act, etc.).
- Bondage - restraint of a person, either by physical item (cuffs, rope, etc.) or instruction (known as mental bondage). [Only light for me, I'm extremely claustrophobic and need at least some freedom of movement]
- Breath play - choking and limiting breath. [I am aware this is dangerous - my bf and I have a system for making sure nothing happens, don't worry]
- Collaring - the act of wearing a collar to show submission, loyalty and/or devotion to a dominant.
- Consensual nonconsent - situations where one or both parties have given prior consent for activities that may appear to be or actually involve nonconsent. Rape play is a common form. The “victim” has given prior consent to this type of play but seems to resist. Couples should negotiate boundaries beforehand, including a safe word. Consensual nonconsent should never be spontaneous.
- Degradation - arousal from being talked down to/insulted during sex.
- Demonophilia - sexual attraction to demons.
- Discipline - giving or receiving punishment for perceived or defined infractions. [receiving, in my case]
- DVP - stands for double vaginal penetration. [Do with that information what you will.]
- Enkuopoiphilia - fetish for the act of impregnantion. Also known as Breeding.
- Face slapping - pretty self explanatory.
- Fighting/Wrestling - also self explanatory.
- Flogging (flagellation) - hitting someone with or being hit with a multi-tailed tool known as a flogger.
- Gags - a form of mouth bondage.
- Gerontophilia - attraction to someone from a much older age group.[Like early 40's for me, at least with men - otherwise it's a fantasy fetish]
- Hierophilia - a sexual attractions towards religious objects or figure, such as nuns.
- Impact play - any activity involving hitting, either with body parts or other tools.
- Leather - yeah
- Masochism - enjoyment of pain, punishment, and torture.
- Muscles - a fetish for defined or large muscles.
- Odaxelagnia - kink for biting or being bitten.
- Orgasm denial - type of play where someone’s orgasm is denied entirely, limited/ruined or delayed.
- Pecattiphilia - fetish for sinning and breaking religious rules.
- Phobophilia - sexual obsession with being afraid.
- Puppy Play - a type of roleplay in which one takes on the role of a puppy. [This is a submissive/humiliation kink only for me, I am not attracted to real or fictional dogs nor do I want to be one]
- Robophilia - sexual attraction to robots.
- Sensation play - a light kink where partners exchange sensations on the skin.
- Spanking - take a wild guess.
- Stygiophilia - arousal by thoughts of hell and eternal damnation.
- Suits - every girl's crazy 'bout a sharp dressed man.
- Teasing (Tantalolagnia) - to enjoy teasing as sexual gratification.
- Tentacles - ._.
- Teratophilia - sexual attraction to monsters.
- Uniforms - sexually aroused by seeing your partner wearing a certain type of uniform.
- Vincilagnia - kink for being tied up and at the mercy of another person.
- Wax play - using wax during sex. Wax comes in the form of massage candles, which are relatively safe.
oct 27 2020 ∞
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