And their definitions in case anyone A. is wondering or B. is concerned I'm into some immoral shit

  • Abduction as seduction - a kink where the abductor/kidnapper treats the victim in a loving manner.
  • Acarophilia - arousal from scratching.
  • Agrexophilia - sexual arousal from the knowledge that other people may become aware of the lovemaking, for example by being overheard or seen.
  • Anasteemaphilia - a sexual attraction to significantly taller or shorter people. [Taller, in my case]
  • Begging - kink for begging and pleading (to have sex, for release/orgasm, to perform an act, etc.).
  • Bondage - restraint of a person, either by physical item (cuffs, rope, etc.) or instruction (known as mental bondage). [Only light for me, I'm extremely claustrophobic and need at least some freedom of movement]
  • Breath play - choking and limiting breath. [I am aware this is dangerous - my bf and I have a system for making sure nothing happens, don't worry]
  • Collaring - the act of wearing a collar to show submission, loyalty and/or devotion to a dominant.
  • Consensual nonconsent - situations where one or both parties have given prior consent for activities that may appear to be or actually involve nonconsent. Rape play is a common form. The “victim” has given prior consent to this type of play but seems to resist. Couples should negotiate boundaries beforehand, including a safe word. Consensual nonconsent should never be spontaneous.
  • Degradation - arousal from being talked down to/insulted during sex.
  • Demonophilia - sexual attraction to demons.
  • Discipline - giving or receiving punishment for perceived or defined infractions. [receiving, in my case]
  • DVP - stands for double vaginal penetration. [Do with that information what you will.]
  • Enkuopoiphilia - fetish for the act of impregnantion. Also known as Breeding.
  • Face slapping - pretty self explanatory.
  • Fighting/Wrestling - also self explanatory.
  • Flogging (flagellation) - hitting someone with or being hit with a multi-tailed tool known as a flogger.
  • Gags - a form of mouth bondage.
  • Gerontophilia - attraction to someone from a much older age group.[Like early 40's for me, at least with men - otherwise it's a fantasy fetish]
  • Hierophilia - a sexual attractions towards religious objects or figure, such as nuns.
  • Impact play - any activity involving hitting, either with body parts or other tools.
  • Leather - yeah
  • Masochism - enjoyment of pain, punishment, and torture.
  • Muscles - a fetish for defined or large muscles.
  • Odaxelagnia - kink for biting or being bitten.
  • Orgasm denial - type of play where someone’s orgasm is denied entirely, limited/ruined or delayed.
  • Pecattiphilia - fetish for sinning and breaking religious rules.
  • Phobophilia - sexual obsession with being afraid.
  • Puppy Play - a type of roleplay in which one takes on the role of a puppy. [This is a submissive/humiliation kink only for me, I am not attracted to real or fictional dogs nor do I want to be one]
  • Robophilia - sexual attraction to robots.
  • Sensation play - a light kink where partners exchange sensations on the skin.
  • Spanking - take a wild guess.
  • Stygiophilia - arousal by thoughts of hell and eternal damnation.
  • Suits - every girl's crazy 'bout a sharp dressed man.
  • Teasing (Tantalolagnia) - to enjoy teasing as sexual gratification.
  • Tentacles - ._.
  • Teratophilia - sexual attraction to monsters.
  • Uniforms - sexually aroused by seeing your partner wearing a certain type of uniform.
  • Vincilagnia - kink for being tied up and at the mercy of another person.
  • Wax play - using wax during sex. Wax comes in the form of massage candles, which are relatively safe.
oct 27 2020 ∞
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