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I am not in any way, shape, or form a music snob. I listen to songs on repeat even if I only like about thirty seconds of the whole thing (e.g., "bad guy"). But here is a list of songs that I really do believe are great.

  • "Rise" - Katy Perry
    • When the fire's at my feet again
    • And the vultures all start circling
    • They're whispering,
    • "You're out of time,"
    • But still I rise."
  • "The Sound of Silence" - Simon & Garfunkel; Disturbed
  • "My Immortal" - Evanescence
  • "Where Did Our Love Go?" - Soft Cell
  • "Paint it Black" - Ciara
  • "Someone You Loved" - Lewis Capaldi
  • "Wish You Were Here" - Pink Floyd
  • "Never be the Same" - Camila Cabello
feb 8 2020 ∞
feb 9 2020 +
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or, Things I Would Tell an Alien to do while Visiting Earth

  • Travel
    • Wonders of the World
      • Great Pyramid of Giza
      • Grand Canyon
      • the Northern Lights
      • Mosi-oa-Tunya (also known as Victoria Falls)
      • Great Barrier Reef
      • Mount Everest
      • Petra, Jordan
      • Great Wall of China
      • The Colosseum, Rome
      • Chichén Itzá, Mexico
    • Visit as many World Heritage sites as possible. A few examples of some I'd go to:
      • Statue of Liberty
feb 2 2020 ∞
feb 2 2020 +
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soulmate - a perceived individual that you must incarnate with to further learn various lessons

    • generally speaking, everyone has more than one soulmate. They could be romantic, familial, etc. You know them because of how wildly deep the bond is.
    • some of our soulmates don't incarnate at the exact same time that we do, but remain in the spiritual realms. Some believe they act as our spirit guides.

When I was ten years old, I met one of my soulmates. His name was Jasper, and we quickly became very, very close. It was sometime in adolescence, I believe, where I first believed he and I started using "soulmate" to describe our powerful feelings for one another.

But as we got older, the things that I had always looked over began to suffocate me. I knew that I was vibrating at a different level, and I was too immersed in socia...

jan 19 2020 ∞
jan 19 2020 +
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  • Happy Day Café
    • what I love: Decorated the walls with dozens of beautiful pictures, inspiring quotes, and--best of all--customers' notes along the walls of things that make them happy. The sign they use to advertise always starts out the same--for example, "What Makes You Happy? A BLT Sandwich!"
    • foods I love
      • sandwiches
        • buffalo chicken
        • spicy cowboy brisket
        • potato salad
      • drinks
        • strawberry banana smoothie
        • blueberry smoothie
        • vanilla...
jan 10 2020 ∞
feb 2 2020 +
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or, a list of things I'd do and go to if I could time travel!

Into the Past

  • Dinosaur Periods
    • ride on a flying pterodactyl
    • paint "I WAS HERE" in a cave from the juice of berries
    • attempt a selfie with a random dinosaur in the background
    • find a way to leave my footprints
  • City of Atlantis
    • explore the geography, the culture, the arts, the relations it had with different countries, etc.
    • visit the temples/religious and spiritual sites
    • locate previous incarnation

Into the Future

dec 26 2019 ∞
jan 18 2020 +
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warning: As the title suggests, this contains STRONG opinions. I don't think anything in here is triggering, but you might be offended.

  • Pansexuality IS, in fact, bisexuality. But that does not mean that pansexuality is a bad or invalid term.
  • People should be extremely careful about labeling themselves as asexual, especially those who have:
    • gone through physical or emotional trauma
    • are not comfortable with their bodies
    • have a fear of abandonment
  • Some sub-labels are good and handy, but others are outright toxic (lithsexuality, fraysexuality, etc) to those identifying as such.
  • The God of Abraham exists, but he is far from an all-good deity, and I do not believe he loves anyone. If your love is conditional, as his is, i...
dec 20 2019 ∞
dec 30 2019 +
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I have already written a list of pairings that I enjoy, and so now is the time to write about the ones that I just can't deal with, or otherwise simply find boring!

  • Harry Potter
    • Severus/Lily
    • Draco/Hermione
    • Ginny/Luna
    • Dumbledore/McGonagall
    • Charlie/anyone
      • because I love the idea of Charlie being an aro-ace
    • Severus/Harry
    • Severus/Remus
    • Severus/Hermione
    • Sirius/Lily
  • Naruto
    • Sasuke/Sakura
nov 28 2019 ∞
nov 28 2019 +
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  • number: 5
  • pairing: Sirius/Remus
  • fast food chain: Hardee's
  • fast food: Sonic's onion rings
  • animal: dog
  • foreign language: Italian
  • crystal: selenite
  • oracle cards: Guardian Angel Tarot (Doreen Virtue & Raleigh Valentine)
  • divination: oracle cards
  • psychic ability: claircognizance
  • element: air
  • being: spirit
  • video game: The Sims 3
  • TS3 EP (The Sims 3 expansion pack): Supernatural
  • TS3 being: witch
  • TS3 town: Moonlight Falls
  • TS3 interaction: Watch the Stars (romantic)
nov 19 2019 ∞
nov 19 2019 +
  • Chapter 6: "Sirius Black"

"So do you have a contraption, then?" he asked eagerly.

"A what?"

"A Muggle contraption!" Sirius cried. He looked almost manic now, his eyes wide and eager. He leaned forward hungrily. "With the rubber wheels and the noisy banging whirring things and the chairs inside that Muggles ride about in!"

"Eh?" Remus was completely lost.

" know, a contraption. A clockwork coach, a noise-maker, a wretched cacophonous travesty, a...a...a...a motor!"

sep 10 2019 ∞
sep 10 2019 +

book by Meg Jay, PhD

  • WORK
    • Identity Capital
      • What is it? Identity capital is our collection of personal assets. It is the repertoire of individual resources that we assemble over time. These are the investments we make in ourselves, the things we do well enough, or long enough, that they become a part of who we are. Some identity capital goes on a resume, such as degrees, jobs, test scores, and clubs. Other identity capital is more personal, such as how we speak, where we are from, how we solve problems, how we look. Identity capital is howe build ourselves--bit by bit, over time. Most important, identity capital is what we bring to the adult marketplace. It is the currency we use to metaphorically purc...
feb 2 2019 ∞
feb 2 2019 +
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  • "The Logical Song" - Supertramp

Why? This song is about growing up, and how the world steals your innocence over the years. It's about how hard times force you to be cold and logical--and when I was very young, I was exposed to a lot of trauma that forced me to be cold and logical as a means of protection.

I was still a kid, though, which is why I think this song is the best description. The tune is still happy, which I hope helps to indicate that in many ways, I was still very childlike.

  • "Spiral Mountain" - Grant Kirkhope

Why? It's childlike, but also has hints of darkness.

  • "Goodbye Cruel World" - Pink Floyd
  • "Wish You Were Here" - Pink Floyd
  • "Another Brick in the Wall pt III" - Pink...
feb 15 2020 ∞
feb 22 2020 +

a man with a big checkbook


feb 3 2020 ∞
feb 3 2020 +
  • Sometimes, I miss school. I miss being able to spend all day doing nothing but learning new things.
    • Of course, there were a lot of things wrong with school and I wouldn't want to go back unless I just had to.
  • Focusing on lucid dreams.
  • Taking Harry Potter inspired classes (and having the time for that to be a thing)
  • Having enough free time to dedicate all my time to spirituality.
  • Falling in love with history in the fifth grade.
  • Falling in love with fanfiction.
  • Banjo-Kazooie, the bear and bird platonic life partners that helped me learn how to read. As well as Banjo-Tooie's music!


jan 22 2020 ∞
feb 2 2020 +
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pre-k to fifth grade

  • pre-kindergarten
    • I was home schooled by my mom, and she made it all into a game. We would pile all of my dolls into a car and drive it down the hallway into her bedroom where we played School.
      • Like, we would set up the dolls around me in a mock classroom
      • I was always the best student, as in she would pretend to scold my dolls for talking hahaha
    • She taught me quite a bit--in fact, when I entered kindergarten the next year, I was ahead of my classmates.
  • kindergarten
    • I remember being scared before going and believing that I would have full-length lockers. Basically, I thought I was being ...
jan 12 2020 ∞
jan 12 2020 +

Being a spiritual person, I've got a lot of different ideas and beliefs floating around in my head. I believe that MOST things have some sort of spiritual significance, and that includes gender identities and sexualities.

I do want to note that MOST spiritual people believe in the innate divinity of masculinity and femininity, but things tend to be very cis-heteronormative. I do not believe that this does a good job of explaining the human experience and is, therefore, not a good way to look at the human experience via a spiritual lens.


  • Root Beliefs
    • I believe that the Universe is All and Everything, and yet Nothing. It is masculine and feminine--but it is also every gender in between and absolutely no gender at...
dec 27 2019 ∞
dec 27 2019 +
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I mean

Also, I had a 2016 list that proceeded this. Nearly forgot about it!

  • Hannah Hart
  • Rhea Butcher
  • Kristen Stewart
    • in Charlie's Angels, whomp
  • Cameron Esposito
    • Rape Jokes
  • RJ from TheNotAdam on YouTube and his hands
  • this one random person I saw at Toyota, oh man
dec 21 2019 ∞
feb 1 2020 +

I am a spiritual person, and asking me to make a list of the things that I believe is more time-consuming than simple. I believe in many things, and there are many things I believe are possible. In an attempt to make things more organized, there will be at least two parts to this. This is a list that will cover my beliefs about the Universe, the afterlife, and deities.

  • Universe
      • What is the Universe? What does it mean to be one with the Universe? Why care?
    • I believe that the Universe is, at once, everything and nothing. It is the trees and the waterfalls, the black holes and the asteroids. It is life, and it is death. It is you and me. The Universe is absolutely everything possible and everything i...
dec 7 2019 ∞
dec 27 2019 +
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Fable III isn't necessarily the BEST game, and I know it wasn't the most popular among fans, but I really love it. Here is an incomplete list of things I like and things I don't!

warning: The following contains spoilers for Fable III. Proceed with caution!


  • Social Issues
    • You can play as a male or a female and there doesn't seem to be much of a difference in the treatment.
    • Homosexual representation.
    • Bisexual representation.
    • Discusses issues of classism, worker's rights, child abuse, etc.
  • Wild Phrases
    • "All I've eaten this week is snow." - starving Dweller Camp villagers
    • "Blessed index cards" - Brightwall librar...
nov 25 2019 ∞
nov 25 2019 +
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will be updated <3

jun 30 2019 ∞
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  • This is huge, and it is difficult, and everything is about to change. Just keep breathing, read your stories, write about it plenty, and keep building who you are.
  • You have every right in the world to be sad, angry, depressed. Most people would not be able to go through all the things you've gone through and still hold their head up--that's a fact. You have feelings. You have emotions. You are human, like anyone else.


  • I know that things are bad at home, and terrifying. I know that you are always scared. Just do what you can do. Rely on your own courage.
  • It gets better. I know you want to believe it does, but I promise you, it gets better--sooner than you think.
feb 2 2020 ∞
feb 2 2020 +
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I strongly believe that a big part of being a good ally is recognizing when you benefit from systemic oppression.

  • White Privilege
  • Cis Privilege
  • Able Privilege
  • Straight (Appearing) Privilege
    • I am 100% queer, but because of my primary attraction to masculine-presenting people, I am most likely to be in more M/F relationships than not. Thus, I am perceived to be straight by most people.
jan 18 2020 ∞
jan 18 2020 +
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In 2016 I ran a list entitled Essential Traits in a Partner. Many things have changed in my personal life since then, and other things haven't. I thought about reviving the list and updating it that way, but then decided I might as well make a new one! I'm cool like that.

note: I am attracted to all gender expressions, but what I like in a partner regarding behavior and overall personality doesn't really change.

  • masculine expression - I don't mean super macho or anything, but I'm not very attracted to people who dress more feminine.
  • top
  • empathy, compassion
  • physically affectionate
  • someone who either does not want kids OR *might* want them one day
  • chivalry remains hot
  • appreciates my sexuality - Not in a "That's hot, let's have a three-way!" kinda way, but, y'know.
dec 27 2019 ∞
dec 27 2019 +
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People are often confused about what bisexuality really is. If you believe that bi+ people are limited to just two, or that pansexuality is innately different than bisexuality, I encourage you to read through this entire list.

Yes, that is bisexuality.

The rise in understanding non-binary identities led to an increase in people being uncomfortable with the term bisexuality, because they worried that to be bi+ meant to exclude non-binary people. It doesn't. Nor is bisexuality limited to attraction to only two genders.

  • The Big Myth
    • "Not everyone is attracted to non-binary people!"
      • If we assume about 99% of the world is allosexual (meaning not asexual), then that means that 99% of the world is able to be sexually attracted to a NB person.
dec 24 2019 ∞
dec 24 2019 +
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13 Things You Like

  • Wind that is strong enough to blow my hair back on a day that isn't too cold.
  • Being excited for different holidays, decorating, making themed food, etc
  • Honestly? I low-key like leading.
  • Finding other open-minded queer people to share community with.
  • Finding other spiritual people to share ideas with.
  • Talking about birth charts with other people.
  • Reading a very, very good book, being excited about it, etc.
  • Being able to enjoy the dawn.
  • Delving into oracle cards and other forms of divination, and later those things being confirmed.
  • Specifically, being able to practice spirituality as the Sun is rising. That is amazing.
dec 7 2019 ∞
dec 8 2019 +
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  • Making Gay History: podcast spoken by queer historian Eric Marcus. He has a huge collection of spoken interviews with various queer historical figures, and he shares them with us in Making Gay History.
  • Outwards: Slate's LGBTQ Podcast: podcast that covers an array of modern queer issues, from how kids understand gender and sexuality to conversion therapy to politics.
nov 25 2019 ∞
nov 25 2019 +
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  • outside
    • a fence that surrounds the area
      • protective enchantments
    • a pleasant walkway leading to the front door
    • garden in the back with an angel statue
  • inside
    • sanctuary
    • bedroom
    • guest room
    • kitchen & dining
    • sitting room
nov 23 2019 ∞
nov 23 2019 +

I'm a forklift operator for D-V. These are some things I've heard, said, saw, or done.

  • "Ain't pushin' shit, ain't loadin' shit, ain't doin' shit. Y'all be alright."
    • - me everytime we're called in Saturday
  • "If your nickname is Cheeseburger, and I'm your junior team leader, does that mean I'm a Junior Cheeseburger?
  • "I'm tired of carrying all this heavy shit."
    • - said by a forklift operator in Bulk
  • Mr Richard does victory laps on forklift when it's time to leave
    • -said by a Korean-American girl as she drives through different departments
aug 25 2019 ∞
feb 8 2020 +
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trigger warning: A couple of these pairings feature characters that are canonically children paired with an adult. This is the world of fandom, so bumping age is a thing! I am not promoting pedophilia in writing this.

You can read my list of pairings I don't care for too!

  • Harry Potter
    • Sirius/Remus
    • Remus/Hermione
    • Sirius/Hermione
    • James/Lily
    • polyamorous!Marauders
      • including Lily
      • including Peter
    • Male!Lily/Fem!James
    • Sirius/Fem!Remus
    • Sirius/James
    • Lily/Fem!Remus
    • Harry/Draco/Harry
jun 30 2019 ∞
nov 28 2019 +
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  • I do typically drink at least one glass of water a day, but I would prefer to drink much more than that.
  • I start things and don't finish them--I want to be a lot better about that, and actually complete my projects.
  • Stop limiting myself or boxing myself in. Stop thinking that I can't do X because of Y.
    • Granted, I have gotten a lot better about this--but still.
  • Not working long enough, or at least as productive enough.
  • Not having a lot of patience with jobs just because it's not what I want to be doing. Because, y'know, things happen and we gotta work anyway.
  • Stop procrastinating so much--but again, I have gotten a good bit better than what I once was doing.
feb 1 2019 ∞
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