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If you've followed me for a moment already, you know that I'm social and/or I post a lot! I apologize first and foremost but the reason I'm typing this is, I'm also incredibly unpredictable in my posting and if you want to talk to me beyond twitter, I need to warn you that.. I am not good at talking!
This means that one on one conversations aren't really my forte. Due to both trauma and mental illness, I am very bad at talking personally with people and often times I just won't.
This is very stressful to me! It doesn't mean that I don't like you or that I don't want to talk to you, it is that I will have a harder time adjusting to your particular social style!
So while I encourage getting to know you, please do not be offended if I don't respond to you or I don't talk at all! It may be because I am unsure how to talk to you or I am currently not at the energy level I think would be required to interact with you!!
I know it's such a silly thing to talk about, but unfortunately it pretty much hinders my social circle and I feel bad when people want to be my friend but I end up scurrying away or not being able to handle the first few weeks of getting to know them due to this, so I figured I'd put a line out there and let people know what to expect from me!
Thank you for reading!