don't follow if:

• i've cut you off before.
• you really enjoy things from my blacklist(if it's for coping reasons, then you can ask to follow).
• you hate my ids/kins.
• you won't see me as a boy???? please
• you aggressively hate my important interests/comfort characters.
  • it's okay if you personally dislike them, but constant harsh negativity is a little difficult for me to handle.

before you follow/things to note:

• i softblock instead of unfollowing/hardblocking.
  • if you prefer me to unfollow/hardblock please tell me about it and i will.
• it's okay for adults to follow me and i don't mind nsfw content.
• if i softblock you its probably because:
  • my age is lower than what youre comfortable with.
  • you share ids/kins with a friend and either one of you doesn't like it.
• i can't tell you when/why i softblock because it makes me nervous, sorry!
  • i don't recommend approaching me to ask either, because that'll only stress me out further and that will make me unable to respond anyways.