BYF :

• i'm neurodivergent (diagnosed autism with possible adhd), so i struggle a lot with interaction ! i'm very shy in the beginning and typically rely on others to keep a conversation going, though i open up more as time passes ! please be patient !!
• i swear and use caps a lot ! i also have a typing quirk where i tend to put a space before a period, exclamation/question mark and sometimes colons/semicolons !
• i also have depression, anxiety & rejection sensitive dysphoria and tend to spiral and have meltdowns
• i don't need tone indicators but i use them for things that could come across as "rude" and would appreciate if you do the same for me !
• i'm rather critical of my interests, but i would appreciate it if you did not bring up anything critical before i do so myself. just seeing ppl hate on my hyperfixations hurts a bit !
• i kin for coping, comfort and also to keep track of my personality and feelings ! if you are uncomfortable with kinning, please don't follow me as i am a VERY avid kinnie hehe
• i sometimes tweet nsfw text (nothing serious or anything dw !) so if you're uncomfy with that i wouldn't recommend following
• also bc of my autism, i infodump a lot and get upset when i think someone isn't listening. pls don't take this personally, my brain just dislikes me a lot !
• if breaking the mutual, pls softblock ! i would also like to know the reason for the mutual break, just in case i did something wrong so i can put it down for future reference !
• i talk a lot about ableism, it will be tagged as such
• i vent sometimes, that will also be tagged !
• sensory tags: dogs barking/whining, intense flashing lights, arguments,
• icky tags: irl gore, emetophobia/vomiting/retching, discourse (fandom/unneeded), school, ableism, r slur, lavender town theme (original), song of healing reversed/song of unhealing
• trauma tags: suicide, self harm, bullying, body image, sirens, angry shouting
• catch all tag: lu don't look (with the apostrophes, lowercase)

i separated things into sections to make it easier to read ! 'icky tags' means things that make me feel gross or guilty !

if you fail to tag these, dw about it ! these aren't entirely too intense for me, but if i have one that i dislike a lot, i might dm you ;;

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DNI :

• you fit basic dni criteria (lgbtphobic, racist, sexist, ableist, etc)
• you're under 12 yrs old or over 22 (current moots cool)
• you support donald trump and/or boris johnson
• you don't respect my boundaries. i do not place many often, so please respect them
• you ship adult x minor, incest, and/or toxic/abusive ships
• you dislike any of my comfort characters, hyperfixations or kins
• you don't share any of my interests
• you don't support the usage of neopronouns, xeno/neogenders or kinning for comfort and/or coping
• disrespect me or any of my friends, or make us feel uncomfortable
• claim to know more than me simply because you are older and act as if me and my friends are stupid because of that fact
• use slurs you cannot reclaim (pls tag the r slur, i can reclaim but seeing it makes me uncomfortable) & slurs in general just make me uncomfortable so i'd appreciate it if you refrained from using them often around me as i don't know how to respond !