It's kinda cool how someone can just pop into your life all of sudden and become so important to you within such a wsmall amount of time. I think that's what makes life so interestinf though. There's always a reason to be hopeful for the future because you never know what good things will come your way next.
You're the one I want to go on late night drives with while holding hands and singing along to the radio, to drive to the middle of no where and look up at the stars while in each other's arms, the one to kiss at red lights, the one to go to coffeehouses with while having tired eyes, the one to be mine while I am yours.
I love it when you become so close with someone that you can see parts of each other in one another and you begin to say the same things and steal lines from one another and have similar sense of humor and can exchange an inside joke with just a glance you don't even have to talk because you have such a strong connection with them and you can sit in comfortable silence but also talk for hours. It's really hard to find thet kind of compatibility.
You may not see it today or tomorrow, but you will look back in a few years and be absolutely perplexed and awed by how every little thing added up and brought you somewhere wonderful - or where you always wanted to be. You will be grateful that thing's didn't work out the way you once wanted them to.
Please make sure that wherever you're at in life, you don't treat like a transitory period. Don't wast your college years wishing to already be graduated and have a job. Don't waste your single years wishing for someone to be in love with. If/When those things come, they will come in due time and they will be good. But there is nothing like looking back and feeling empty because you wasted literal years ignoring what you had because you where hoping for something better. While it's important to better yourself and reach for your goals, don't neglect the present because that's where you are now and it's your now that determines your future.
Humans are so cute, when we say goodbye we put our arms around each other and to show we love someone we bring the flowers. We say hello by holding each other's hand, and sometimes tiny little dewdrops form in our eyes. For pleasure, we listen to arrangements of sounds, press our lips together, smoke dried leaves, get drunk off of old fruit. We're all just little animals, falling in love and having breakfast beneath billions of stars.
As a fellow socially anxious person, i think it's important to let you all know that no one cares about your flaws as much as you do. No one is going to notice if your hair is a little flat, or that your eyebrows are a little uneven, or that there is a loose thread in the hem of your sweater. And, even if they do, no one is going to hate you for it, or think you're gross, or stop being your friend because of it. Hell, being around someone who isn't perfect is nice beacause we can all take comfort in knowing that EVERYBODY has slightly off odds and ends. so don't pay any mind to the little things that make you worry, no one is going to think less of you for them.
You might think you don't matter in this world, but because of you, someone now likes themselves a little bit more beacause you made a passing comment that made them feel good. Someone has read a book you recommended and they got lost in the pages. Someone has remmembered a joke you told them that made the smile to themselves on the bus. Someone has tried on an outfit and felt beautiful because you complimented them on it. Never think you don't have an impact, your fingerprints can't be wiped away from the little marks of kindness you've left on the world.
It's important to do what's best for you, whether people approve of it or not. This is your life. You know what's good for you and remember, self love takes strength.
A soulmate isn't someone who completes you. No, a soulmate is someone who inspires you to complete yourself. A soulmate is someone who loves you with so much conviction, and so much heart, that it is nearly impossible to doubt just how capable you are of becoming exactly who you have alaways wanted to be. (bianca sparacino)
You're lovely. You have galaxies in your eyes and forests in your brain and magic in your heart. Your body is an enchanting landscape filled with nooks and crannies and edges and curves that are unique to you and you alone. Your mind is magical and nobody else thinks the same way that you do or processes information the same way that you do or loves the same way that you do. Don't listen to anyone that tells you otherwise even yourself. (celestialpositivity)
The best kind of people are the ones that come into your life and make you see the sun where you once saw clouds. The people that believe in you so much, you start to believe in you too. The people that love you, simply for being you. The once in a lifetime kind of people.
One if the biggest lies we are told is that we need someone else too feel complete. We're not broken or fractured, or only halves of ourselves. Sometimes we're bent or injuried or completely crewed over and life temporarily makes us feel like we lose parts of ourselves - but we're never incomplete. We were born whole - we've been whole ever since. (we are whole / n.j.)