what does the 'basic dni criteria' consist of? well, this could differ depending on the person but i'd say it's mostly a do not interact if you're:

• ableist (this includes people who are against self diagnosis too!)
• antisemitic, islamophobic
• fujoshi/fundashi , fetishize mlm relationships/pairings/etc
• lgbtphobic (lesbophobic, homophobic, biphobic, panphobic, transphobic, exclusionist, etc)
• nazi, alt-right
• racist, anti-black , against blm, all/blue lives matter
• xenophobic
• against lesboys/turiagirls ( another helpful carrd )
• against mspec lesbians/gays ( here's carrd about it! )
• believe that fiction isn't meant to be unrealistic/fantastical
• map or 'minor attracted person', a pedophile - basically
• romanticize abuse or mental illnesses
• use slurs you can't reclaim

• you think white people can get an "n word pass"
• you think hispanic people [who are not afro-hispanic] have the "right" to say the n word
• you don't think gender is a construct reinforced by white colonizers to destroy cultural diversity
• you think it's appropriate to wear "indian costumes" as a non-indigenous person without explicit consent and reason from indigenous folk, and don't believe in indigenous communities having their land rightfully returned to them
• you don't believe in reparations for the black community
• you try to speak over BIPOC voices when they communicate what they need and what is Actually important to them

• you believe in narcissistic abuse and assume people with NPD are manipulative and abusive by default
• you believe people with ASPD are psychopaths/sociopaths or use those words to demonize pwASPD. just because we have low/no empathy and a disregard for authority figures does not mean we are out to get you
• you make fun of or fakeclaim niche or specific triggers . just because it doesn't make sense to you doesn't mean the trigger doesn't reminder someone of something deeply upsetting. don't be an asshole
• you make jokes about how "everyone is a little Autistic" or "oh i'm so OCD" or "that's so Bipolar of you!". there are other words you can use, stop reinforcing stereotypes of these disorders/disabilities.

• against xenogenders, neopronouns
• against lesbians who use pronouns that aren't she/her , the same applies for gay men who use pronouns that aren't he/him
• against any sort of non-binary or cisn't identity
• make fun of the way people identify? it's not only plain rude , but also extremely transphobic and ableist
• trans-exclusionary radical feminist or any branch of feminism that excludes trans women or claim that trans women are not women or that feminism fights for trans men too . TERFS can suck it
• the feminism you are part of has a transphobic community or ideals, and you don't actively call it out/do anything against it, this applies to you too, people who are 'neutral' about transmisogyny and transphobia are transphobic as well
• do not have a problem interacting/being friends with people who are transphobic, it's harmful and if you can be okay with people who refuse to treat trans people li...