･ ｡ﾟ☆: *.☽ .* :☆ﾟ. ─── 𝚍𝚘 𝚗𝚘𝚝 𝚒𝚗𝚝𝚎𝚛𝚊𝚌𝚝 𝚒𝚏 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚊𝚛𝚎

• accountability dodgers
• weird (perverted, rasist) people
• fake & people who shittalks about smb in public settings
• selfish/ inconsiderate/ toxic/ malicious people
• dishonest/ pathological liars and manipulators
• pushy or controlling people
• people who don't respect boundaries
• if you hurt my fam, mari, auri or irl friends you better not go close me even :DD

･ ｡ﾟ☆: *.☽ .* :☆ﾟ. ─── 𝚍𝚒𝚜𝚕𝚒𝚔𝚎𝚜

• violence
• unfairness
• drama

⌜ i’m always here to help my besties & close friends, and people who know me well know i can literally go back you up in the front line;; but genuinely, i’m on my knees asking you to please not drag me into the drama you have with other people. so if we're just casual friends, acquaintances, or people who barely know each other, please don't expect me to involve myself in a conflict that's clearly between you and someone else.

i can always be here to listen and help, but that's completely different from being dragged and expected to get involved as a 3rd party in something that is clearly an issue between you two-- especially when i never asked for it, explicitly showed i was uncomfortable, or even told you i don't like it and you still continue??

helping is one thing;; being dragged and expected to get involved in someone else’s drama is another. honestly, when someone keeps doing that despite me making it clear that i’m uncomfortable with it, especially without taking any accountability, it genuinely makes me sick;; so please respect that boundary if you care about having me in your life and don’t want me to eventually distance myself or cut you off.

PS: the same applies if we have disagreements between each other, i’d much rather keep things between us instead of bringing 3rd parties into something that’s between the two of us. i’m always willing to communicate and give you time if you need it, but communication is important to me, and if you choose not to communicate or repeatedly involve other people instead, i’ll take that as a sign that it’s better for me to step away.⌟

• public speaking lol
• stress and my anxieties lol
• snakes & bugs (some of them but spiders are fine tho)
• raw tomatoes & seafood (except for a few fish)
• loud places
• "small talks" (depends;; but among closer friends it kinda gets awkward if that keeps happening everyday or sum)