― physical affirmation . . .

• hand-holding
  • probably the most basic, foundation-level form of physical affection, but i really do love it.
• sprawling
  • i like sprawling. i'll sprawl all over my partners. my legs or arm or head or all of the above will be on top of them.
• hair
  • running my hands through their hair, styling their hair, playing with their hair, whatever it is - i really like doing that sort of thing. i like receiving it too but i absolutely despise it when its done by someone i don't have any romantic attraction to. makes me ick.

― words of affirmation . . .

• over-affection in long paragraphs
  • i love writing long, long letters. i don't speak my affections but i write them. and i can write on and on and on for hours, and i love describing every itty bitty detail.
• planning dates
  • scroll down to quality time. i like going on dates, but i love planning them too. talking about them.

― quality time . . .

• dates
  • 24/7, 365, i'm planning dates, thinking about going on dates, etc. i just love dates. more than the average person. i have so many plans ideas and concepts mapped out in my brain for them. even if we don't follow through with them, i love discussing them.
• sleeping or relaxing together
  • doesn't matter what we're doing, a chill, kind of sleepy shared space, always my favourite.
• smoke breaks together
  • fuelling my nicotine addiction? maybe. but i like the safety and warmth of being with someone while i do, even if they aren't smoking with me, it's just nice. i don't usually like smoking around other people so it's an intimate thing for me.