why you SHOULD date me:

• i love romance and would always dream of it (certified hopeless romantic)
• i’m a sx dominant so i value relationships pretty much
• i’m loyal like a dog bc i wanna date to marry
• i would occasionally write handwritten love letters to you
• i might write love songs and poems for us too 😄
• i would also be your free therapist, if there’s something bothering you just vent to me (i’m experienced)
• i can listen to you talk for hours and remember 75-80% of the details
• i believe that i should give something in return to everything you give me
• i usually (if not always) think before i do anything, and i put efforts into even the smallest things
• i’m fairly good at English so i can be your personal translator (in case u need one)
• i don’t have much social skills so other guys wouldn’t be attracted to me easily 🤪
• although i’m easy to catch butterflies, i don’t fall easily so don’t expect me to cheat
• love is a SERIOUS job for me; it’s also one of the things that i want to accomplish in life
• i don’t expect you to give me many gifts; i’m not needy and dependent & would use my own money to buy stuff unless you offer to pay
• i’d respect your decisions and boundaries. even if you decide to break up with me, i would let you go without coming back and intervening in your life/revenge on your new lover,… even if my heart breaks, i would only treat you as a memory.
• i would let EVERYONE know that we’re dating: my family, my friends, my relatives, my coworkers/classmates,… UNLESS we really need to hide it for work purposes.
• i am truthful and honest & cannot tell lies (most of the time; not about negative emotions)
• if you can sing/play a musical instrument, i would sing/play with you too ❤️
• i’m the type of person who would learn/take up something just because of you. for example if you love football, i would eager to learn the basics of the sport, your favourite team,… to be able to understand & talk to you about it

why you should NOT date me:

• i am enneatype 5 => does not express feelings easily & expect slow connection :)
• i am a bit easy to get jealous
• also i’m quite easy to catch butterflies (i hope if i’m in a relationship it would be lessened bc mayb it's due to a lack of love experience)
• i might not tell you when there’s something bothering me
• i have unrealistic expectations for people including you. i always expect people to act on a degree equal to or even better than me
• i might be the most indecisive person you've ever encountered
• there’s a heart disease gene that runs in my family. although i’m not directly affected by it, i might have a small amount of that gene => if we have children tgt, one of the kids might probably be affected by it.
• i’m messy AF when it comes to private spaces
• sometimes i might act like an attention seeker (although it might not be my intention)
• i don't like to depend on another person bc i think i'm not deserving of help & intensive care
• i’m hypersensitive sometimes, so you must be very careful and observant, or else i would overthink everything
• if we are closer, sometimes when i feel down, i might lash out at you or close off until i feel better
• i am a VERY passive person who would never take the initiative unless forced to
• i am chronically late :)
• sometimes i might be meticulous to the point you lose your patience
• i don’t really care about my health problems and would just ignore them in order to complete my work
• sometimes i might value the outcome more than your emotions/health problems
• i cannot tell lies
• i am sometimes awkward asf and that affects my communication skills a lot
• i'm not good at dealing with children & cannot baby talk
• due to the social blindspot in my enneagram type, i might not concern of what’s happening in the world/in our social group(s) (but don’t worry i’ll stay woke ✌️)