- Statement: We loved spending time together.
- Reality: As long as there was a clear occasion for it well established in advance. I mean, we really don’t know each other
- Statement: We never disagreed about anything.
- Reality: Sure, since we never had to make a serious decision together nor we had the chance to talk about something important (see voting)
- Statement: We had so much in common.
- Reality: we had the passion for impro in common and barely that (see improg)
- Statement: The sex was great.
- Reality: I never came, there were unbearably long times in which I seriously considered why I hooked up with him and if the first time a day was easy, the rest was a disaster
- Statement: He looked just like Orlando Bloom.
- Reality: ok, this is a cheap shot but he is not good looking, by anyone’s standard. I also knew it when we hooked up! It was one of those things that created doubt in me regarding how much we would have lasted!
- Statement: He was really cool to my friends.
- Reality: not only he didn’t know my friends but he didn’t want to meet my friends and he probably would have been bored by my friends nerdiness
- Statement: He was smart, funny, and had great taste in music.
- Reality: tbh, he is. But lots of my friends are. Even my exes.
- Statement: I don't even remember why we broke up.
- Reality: well, that’s easy: he found a twenty something old that looked at him funny
- Statement: We both wanted kids, dogs, and a minivan.
- Reality: he was too busy for his own dog, he didn’t want my cats and for babies… well, that would be so problematic it’s not even a good point here!
- Statement: We never fought about anything.
- Reality: we never had anything of substance to fight about and he was anyway very much judgmental of my situation (and not his own)
- Statement: He always did little things to show me he cared.
- Reality: he barely showed up when we could meet because I was always the one who moved. He never moved for me and, beside the fact that everyone is entitled to have boundaries, it was a shitty thing that made me feel shitty.
- Statement: He never lied, cheated, or made me feel bad about myself.
- Reality: he lied, he cheated and he definitely mad me feel shitty about myself. He was sorry for this and for the situation but this does not excuse him.
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