• a fun, warm, supportive, loving man in my life
• a flower garden
• a job that lets me work on interesting projects, design things, and work with people
• a pet...a mellow dog or a couple of cats
• be fit and active - play sports, rollerblade, ride bike
• mentally active - reading, writing, some kind of artistic outlet
• have community connections - kids at school, wheelchair sports, something
• a nice place to live, lots of natural light, homey & comfortable
• time to cook and go for walks
• international travel
• a job in a school as the media specialist, online learning etc

Optional, but would certainly be nice:

• a fun, warm, supportive, loving man in my life-- (who am I kidding? not optional)
• a kid or two
• a veggie garden (community plot?)