• Lucy
• Katie
• Michelle
• Jennifer
• Noreen
• Lauren
• Ashima
• Sabrina

• Inner strength
• Mental strength
• self control
• comfortable being themselves
• comfortable in silence
• fun loving
• secure
• soft
• loving
• kind
• gentle

• cute
• girly
• snuggly
• funny
• FUN
• pleasant smell
• thoughtful
• good gift giver
• charming
• huggable
• magnetic

• clean out the fridge
• take out garbage
• laundry
• clean bathroom
• vacuum
• recycle
• dry cleaning

• has a great personality
• is a good friend to their fellows
• is smart
• isn't afraid of hard work
• is happy, jolly, joyful
• is loving and affectionate
• is beautiful
• is healthy
• likes to eat

• water
• tasty, Nutritious, Foods
• clean laundry
• warm dry bed
• shower

• big butt
• pout
• scowl
• laugh
• loud voice
• emotions

• Loyalty
• Fun
• smart
• good listening skills
• healthy
• good cooks
• money to spend

• Singapore
• Iceland
• Spain
• Portugal
• Turkey
• Senegal
• Canada
• St. Martin
• The Bahamas
• Germany
• Austria
• Switzerland
• Japan
• Vietnam

• What did you do, create, or experience this year that you are proud of?

I had to ask for a raise several times before securing it! I am persistent and I persevere.

I held my ground and secured a two week vacation.

I traveled to and survived Vietnam and trying times in my relationship.

I did a whole 30.

I followed my instinct and dreams and put together a Halloween costume I loved.

• What mistakes did I make that taught me something?

I let Brittney manipulate my feelings. I took her out to lunch and embarrassed myself when I knew better.

I let myself wallow in self pity

I lived in the past and future instead of the present.

• Shopping with Lucy
• Astor Bake Shop Brunches
• Fries
• cooking
• College visits
• Lunches at Moonstruck
• Cooking with Grandma Viola

• The Ocean
• Mountains
• Dessert
• Waves
• Windy roads
• Trees
• Dinner

• hair
• humor
• uniqueness
• brains
• sensitivity
• honor
• devotion
• commitment
• memories
• bond
• blood
• cooking
• love
• daughter
• photography
• movies
• respect

• Oysters
• lobster
• chocolate
• berries
• meatballs
• asparagus

• Affirmations work
• Life moves in circles
• Life takes time
• Your goals almost always take longer to achieve than you expect
• The proximity rule; you are most likely to fall in love with those in closest proximity; you need to be around people to fall in love
• When you remove your addictions you get to the deepest conflicts causing you anxiety
• When you are sensitive you do feel so much more than others
• Your emotions are strengths
• What goes down will come up again; don't give up, ever
• If you lack self control abstinence is an effective method for staying in control; it works
• Limitations make choosing easy

• morning rituals
• working
• deciding what to eat
• walking
• exercising
• loving
• smiling
• laughing

• Hallway closet #1 smaller mostly shelves
• Hallway closet #2 medium large ( very dark inside)
• Pantry Closet in Kitchen
• Bedroom Closet
• bench
• Under the bed
• Chest of Drawers ( 4 Drawers)
• Book Shelf #1 ( shoes?)
• Book Shelf #2 ( books)
• Tall Cabinet ( 3 medium Drawers 2 small 3 display shelves)
• TV cabinet
• Under sink Kichen
• Under sink Bathroom
• Medicine Cabinet
• Kitchen Island
• Kitchen Cabinets

• Cooking delicious Family Meals
• Creativity
• Loveable
• Thoughtful looking out for friends and family
• closeness
• they appreciate art and artists
• they like to eat and feed you
• they are warm, loving, affectionate

• getting dressed up on Halloween
• Aura photos on NYE
• Chinese food on NYE
• Clean out the Fridge
• Closet cleaning in Spring
• Girl friends trip

• Strawberry Shortcake
• Zucchini Cake
• Lasagna
• Pasta with Meat sauce
• Osso Bucco
• Cupcakes
• Butternut squash
• Spinach Pizza
• Caponata
• Roasted Chicken
• Roasted Red Peppers
• Artichoke Dip
• Apple Pie
• Rainbow cookies
• Black and White Swirls

• lose myself
• be unhappy
• not realize my full potential
• being let down in a big way
• being humiliated
• feeling uncomfortable icky
• bonded to the wrong person
• poor match
• ruin the others life and make them unhappy
• get bored
• hate their family
• disagree on too much stuff
• indifference

• woman's reproductive rights
• family leave and benefits
• violence and terrorism
• climate change
• nutrition
• animal extinction
• ocean dumping
• education
• clean water
• depletion of natural resources

• walking
• making love
• cooking
• eating
• listening to music
• dancing
• laughing
• with family
• talking