Basically a lot of manipulation, a lot of passive aggressiveness and a lot of bull. It's made me defensive with the tendency to shut down at people who communicate in ways that are not crystal clear. I also have the tendency to be very direct with my communication to the point where it comes off cold and terse, and if it bothers you, let me know so I know how to better communicate.

I don't pay attention to bad attitudes. People who try to talk to me with a poor attitude are disrespectful and I don't speak to people that disrespect me anymore.

The word "whatever" when used in aggression like "yeah, ok whatever" will instantly trigger me into defense mode.

I am an immigrant, so any mentions of DACA, ICE, or deportation are sensitive for me. Please do not mention these topic around me.