If I were in a queer-platonic relationship, would I want the following things?
- Kissing (forehead, cheek, etc): No.
- Kissing (mouth): No.
- Hand holding: No.
- Cuddling: Yes, if I'm feeling okay with it (I have confidence issues; self-conscious of my body). Let's just keep the clothes on.
- Hugging: Yes
- Other affectionate touching: A little bit, depends what it is.
- Hugging in public: i guess?
- Cuddling in public: when and where would this happen..???
- Kissing (forehead, cheek, etc) in public: No.
- Kissing (mouth) in public: No.
- Hand holding in public: No.
- Other affectionate touch in public: Nah..
- Eye gazing: No...
- Crying on: I mean.. if I really need it then yeah?
- Being cried on: See above.
- Massage (giving): No.
- Massage (receiving): No.
- Hair brushing (giving): NOPE. (do not like hair)
- Hair brushing (receiving): No.
- Nail painting (giving): No.
- Nail painting (receiving): No..?
- Shaving (giving): NOPE.
- Shaving (receiving): NOPE.
- Bathing together (with bathing suits): NOPE.
- Bathing together (naked): NOOOOPPPPEEE. 🤮
- Seeing my partner naked: Please no.
- My partner seeing me naked: NOOOOPPPPEEE.
- Feeding my partner: No.
- Being fed by my partner: No.
- Tickling (being tickled): No.
- Tickling (doing the tickling): No.
- Terms of endearment: Yeah
- Being called “best friend”: Yes please 🥲
- Being called “partner”: Maybe but probably not. Only in a cowboy way. Howdy.
- Being called romantically-coded words (boyfriend, girlfriend, etc): Probably not.
- Me having other platonic partners: unlikely that i would anyway, but typically no. I would only want that one special person. See more below.
- My partner having other platonic partners: Makes me sound like a bitch, but no, sorry. To clarify, I have no problem with them having other friends (I would be crazy and controlling if I had a problem with that), but having specifically another queer-platonic partner, which I see as different from a regular friend, then no. I would rather keep this more intimate relationship just between the two of us.
- Me having other romantic partners: I'm aro; N/A
- My partner having other romantic partners: I would rather they didn't, sorry.
- My partner doing romantic-coded things with someone else: No, sorry.
- Me doing romantic-coded things with someone else: Again, aro. So no.
- My partner doing sexual things with someone else: No, sorry. (I am sex-averse; it would make me feel uncomfortable).
- Me doing sexual things with someone else: No.
- Touching my partner sexually: No.
- Being touched by my partner sexually: No.
- Having sex of any kind with my partner [specify if yes]: No.
- Sexual kink with my partner [specify if yes]: No.
- Non-sexual kink with my partner [specify if yes]: No.
- “Romantically coded” gifts (flowers, chocolates, etc): No.
- Dancing: I don't dance.
- Bed sharing (non-affectionate): Hmm...
- Bed sharing (cuddling): ...on top of the covers might be okay (Like when watching a movie together). Again, clothes on, please.
- Tucking my partner in: No...
- Being tucked in: No...
- Living together: 99% chance of no; mega-introvert and have really low tolerance for other people in my space. A 'together but seperate' situation might work. Like one apartment/house with seperate areas, but still the same building. Them living on one floor, me on another (for example). Communal living, i guess? Seperate bathrooms, bedrooms, and even kitchen but a joined lounge area.
- (Platonic) marriage: I never thought about it, but not opposed to it.
- Raising children together: No children ever please.
- Having pets together: Maybe, could be fun.
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