↳ it's a process...

• insular view of themselves
• words are contradictory to behaviour
• often gives unsolicited advice
• unintentionally tries to validate the situation by bringing up a scenario that relates to themselves
• internalises a lot
• hates confrontation and therefore avoids communicating
• bouts of passive aggressiveness
• says a lot of half truths
• engages in self deprecating behaviour because it's trendy or a quirk