i think people that say 'love isnt real' are stupid. they just say that to be different and cool, edgy like mysterious people only found in john green books. love is real. we see it so often, people around us, on the street, in our dreams. and people who say love is only found in fiction, well, did you know that fiction has some basis on real life? i think some people confuse the ideas of being too scared to love or never been loved before with 'love isnt real'. just because you havent felt it, doesnt mean its fake. there is no true definition of love, so it can be interpreted in many ways. there is platonic, romantic, spiritual. its very likely youve felt love before towards someone or something but just havent realised it. so dont dismiss the idea of love, its there, youre just scared.