- 1/13/09 - Drinks w/ Carlton at McCormick & Schmicks
- 1/19/09 - Birthday lunch at Cafe Ba-Ba-Re-Ba and Circus Circus w/ Ken
- 1/24/09 - Lunch w/ Joanna Chulick and Betty Mercer at Border Grill
- 2/2/09 - Lunch w/ Ken N at Ricardo's
- 2/5/09 - Lunch w/ Carlton at McCormick & Schmicks
- 2/6/09 - Lunch w/ Jef at PF Changs
- 2/6/09 - Dinner w/ Jef and Leslie at Pizza Caffe
- 2/9/09 - Dinner w/ Ken at Circus Circus coffee shop
- 2/10/09 - Entire morning spent with Ken at Circus Circus
- 2/12/09 - Dinner with Ken and Carrie Hanlon at Marie Callenders
- 2/16/09 - Afternoon w/ Ken at Coffee Pub and Circus Circus
- 2/23/09 - Late afternoon dinner and amazing conversation w/ Ken at Circus Circus coffee shop
- 3/9/09 - Afternoon w/ Ken at Circus Circus
- 3/14/09 - Springs Preserve, dinner at Coyote's & overnight w/ Ken (heaven)
- 3/23/09 - Afternoon w/ Ken at Circus Circus (pivotal day for expressions of love)
- 4/10/09 - Lunch at Coffee Pub and afternoon w/ Ken at Circus Circus (kind of sad - talked about his letter)
- 4/23/09 - Dinner at Florida Cafe and all night with Ken at Circus Circus; Ken had orgasm for first time since Easter 2007
- 4/24/09 - Second night with Ken at Circus Circus; had a second orgasm
- 5/2/09 - CLASS dinner at Caesars Palace
- 5/16-17/09 - Visited Emily in Denver; Boulder, 16th Avenue Mall, LoDo, Denver Zoo
- 5/20/09 - Drinks with Carlton at McCormick & Schmicks
- 5/23/09 - Outdoor concert (Delfayo Marsalis) at the Gov't Center with Tina, Georgia, and Anita Stockbauer
- 5/24/09 - Afternoon w/ Ken at Circus Circus (picnic on the bed) third orgasm
- 5/31/09 - Went to Palm Desert to see Jim and Nancy; dinner at Ruby's Diner
- 6/5/09 - Afternoon w/ Ken at Circus Circus (orgasm)
- 6/7/09 - Outdoor concert (The Sax Pack) at the Gov't Center with Tina and Georgia
- 6/9/09 - Movie and dinner at BJ's w/ Rebecca & Judge
- 6/16/09 - Picnic lunch and after-work visit w/ Ken at West Flamingo Park
- 6/18-21/09 - Visit to Door County, Wisconsin, and Upper Peninsula for Joanna Chulick's wedding
- 6/22/09 - Dinner w/ Ken at Florida Cafe (orgasm)
- 6/23/09 - Breakfast in bed w/ Ken at Circus Circus (big orgasm)
- 6/23/09 - Drinks at McCormick & Schmick and dinner w/ Carlton (told me he loved me & wanted a relationship)
- 7/01/09 - Dinner w/ Ken at Mexitalia and Circus Circus (very loving & talked about what future together might be like)
- 7/03/09 - Dinner w/ John at Winchell's
- 7/04/09 - LV Symphony at Springs Preserve
- 7/06/09 - Lunch w/ Ken at Casino Cafe and afternoon at Circus Circus (very loving, seems to be wrestling with his thoughts; no orgasm since June 23)
- 7/15/09 - Lunch w/ Ken at Casino Cafe and afternoon at Circus Circus (another big orgasm)
- 7/20/09 - Lunch w/ Ken at Bellagio cafe (2 year anniversary) and afternoon at Circus Circus (soooo loving and romantic)
- 7/27/09 - Short, loving visit w/ Ken at Circus Circus (orgasm)
- 8/11/09 - Afternoon picnic w/ Ken at Mt. Charleston then back to Westin Hotel
- 8/11/09 - IM message from Ron in Utah; obviously saw status msg to Ken
- 8/18/09 - Movie at The Palms w/ Ken (very erotic)
- 8/20/09 - Lunch w/ Ken at the Westin restaurant and evening visit
- 9/5/09 - Lunch w/ Ken at Ellis Island, Westin pool, and afternoon visit (orgasm & started talking about the future)
- 9/16/09 - Coffee w/ Ken at Starbucks and talking in hotel room (more future talk of dreams, etc.)
- 9/18/09 - Evening w/ Ken at Westin (big orgasm)
- 9/25/09 - Lunch at Mon Ami Gabi, pool fun, afternoon delight w/ Ken (orgasm)
- 10/10/09 - Dinner w/ Ken at Firefly Tapas, then hotel room quickee (orgasm) (more future talk)
- 10/15/09 - Bellagio Conservatory, then hotel room
- 10/21-22/09 - Trip to Portland; dinner at Oba!; Powell's Books, breakfast together...heavenly
- 11/07/09 - Coffee with Eric at Starbucks
- 11/09/09 - Breakfast w/ Ken at Westin; lunch at Ellis Island (orgasm)
- 11/15/09 - Coffee & Hughes Center walk w/ Ken
- 11/23/09 - Morning at Westin w/ Ken (orgasm)
- 11/24-28 - Ojai and Santa Barbara; dinner at Dorgan's Irish Pub
- 12/04/09 - Afternoon w/ Ken at Westin, exchanged Christmas gifts (orgasm)
- 12/15/09 - Lunch w/ Carlton at McCormick & Schmicks; movie preview at Brenden Palms Theatre
- 12/31/09 - Ken met me at the Embassy Suites-Santa Ana for New Year's Eve dinner, etc. (fabulous!)
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