- I was scared with the intensity of our arguments
- I was concerned with how seemingly random and quick the arguments could begin
- I was concerned with how you could not pull yourself out of moods
- I was angry that you could not be "in the moment" with our relationship; I felt you always wanted that end-point secured
- I was angry with the increasing criticisms of me in bed; they were not offered as constructive criticism
- I was concerned with what I felt were increasing double-standards in terms of sexual issues between us: necessary for me to accept your sexual problems but not OK for you to deal with mine
- I was concerned with your increasing emphasis on multiple orgasms
- I was concerned with the continuum of omissions and secrets you were keeping
- I was observant and dismayed that you have dragged your feet on pursuing divorce action with Lori
- I was concerned over your detachment from the Endymion sale, when that is your biggest and thorniest asset
- I was observant/angry that you were more concerned about cleaning traces of me from your vehicle for Lori's benefit than you were about me finding Linda's (?) panties and camisole in your bedroom
- I was concerned over what I observed as controlling tendencies in the relationship (e.g. constantly talking over me during phone conversations, anger when on my turf)
- I was concerned with your reneging on going back into therapy with Jan
- I was concerned with double standards I perceived about behavior...e.g., not OK for me to have something booked when you visited but OK for you to go to tango class, take Lori to the airport, etc. while I visited; not OK for me to "count" but you seemed to "count" every bit as much as me; OK for you to be angry but not for me to get pushed over a line
feb 3 2011 ∞
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