- List of Feelings, Wants, Needs: Independence, Openness, Shared Responsibility, Presence and Focus, Travel, Emotional Stability
- List of Appreciations: health, sunny personality, wealth, house, freedoms
- List of Passions: travel, languages, volunteering, words/books, films, time alone
- List of Resentments: lack of respect/consideration (TV, clothing, pets, house, food needs, etc), disproportionate household chores, slowness, lack of focus
- Initial attractions: he was funny; we were compatible friends and colleagues before anything else; he was besotted with me; I was somewhat on rebound from prior relationship (6 months prior); he came with built-in family (I didn't want kids);
- Initial attractions/music: you feel like you're "with the band;" was a part-time hobby; other people think it's cool
- Distractions/music: has overtaken the house, both space and aurally; has become a full-time job/obsession; my free time generally is dictated by his music activities; his passion requires many accommodations
- "I'm tired of" list
jan 12 2009 ∞
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