- Lying to my face about seeing someone else - then learned there were many someones
- His disrespect
- Said he didn't feel "joy" in the relationship and it was "too much work"
- He couldn't be in the "now" - wanted to push a long-term commitment - what a joke in hindsight...he's the one who can't commit
- He ruined my New Years open house
- He lied about Linda when he didn't need to
- He reneged on going back into therapy
- He reneged on quitting cigarettes and then justified not telling me because he "doesn't know what we are to each other"
- He left women's panties in his room but wanted all traces of me out of his Trailblazer for Lori's benefit
- He hadn't made any moves toward divorce
- He hadn't changed addresses on his bills, etc. - no privacy from Lori even after nearly a year
- He had double standards about my behavior vs. his
- He had double standards about his sexual problems vs. mine
- He always deflected his actions back onto me as being my problems
- He hurts me while taking care of his ever-high-priority needs
jan 31 2011 ∞
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