This world has distorted views on give-and-take. Lace up your feet in someone else's shoes today. Don't judge what they do; try to discover why they do it.

Why is it that if I don't contact you first I don't hear from you? No man sister this is not on! I dunno, maybe because I don't get annoyed when other people do it to me so I assume it doesn't bother other people when I do it. Maybe I was ignored or left out of things often in the past so got used to not being involved & thus 'active' in relationships. Maybe I don't have anything important to talk about and couldn't be bothered with trivial or nonessential conversation. Maybe I'm just reclusive like that. You know I've always been a loner. I'm a solitary kinda person because I've realised it's better for my spiritual & emotional well-being. Or maybe there are other reasons. Ag, we all have our pitfalls & pet peeves and reasons for both. It's not really intentional. It's just who I am.