things i am okay writing, and also reading

• 'shit i love you so much' sex fwiw is great i get emo over this
• breathplay
• choking/edgeplay
• creative misuse of items that are not supposed to be used for sex
• crossdressing kink
• discipline
• exhibitionism
• fucking machines get their own bullet point
• knife/gunplay
• orgasm denial
• overt sadism
• painplay
• really messy oral sex
• restraints! (it can also be spontaneous tbh)
• sex pollen
• sex toys
• sounding
• tentacles, they're great
• three/four somes (five+ is an orgy, right? they're ok too tho)

i am also not above dubcon or a/b/o anymore, who am i