People say things like...

• 'I'm not angry, I'm disappointed'
• 'Unacceptable'
• 'I love you because you're my daughter, but I don't like you as a person right now'
• 'Why haven't you got any sales?'
• 'You've not got the same joy about you anymore'

People do things like...

• Glare at me
• Blank me altogether
• Leave me out of the group
• Use an aggressive tone of voice
• Start arguments, even when it's not with me personally
• Become ridiculously nasty when they're drunk

Other things I find upsetting include...

• When I'm the first person from my team to go for lunch and I need to go to the canteen alone and find seats
• The cancer research adverts on the telly
• Thinking about death.
• Trying to reason with a drunk person