do not follow if:

• you think you might know me irl.
• you're a cis man.
• you're cishet.
• you're over 25 / 14 or younger
• you think cishet aces / cishet aros belong in the lgbt community.
• you use the q slur as an umbrella term / don't recognize that it's a slur.
• you don't recognize the h word is a slur.
• you use the words/believe in monosexual / allosexual privilege.
• you make fun of/are against otherkin + fictionkin.
• you id as/kin luke skywalker (my major id)
• you are against self diagnosis.
• you think reverse oppression is real.
• you're a twef/terf or a swef.
• you ship any of these.
• you publicly post about any other ships that are incest, csa, or abusive.
• you fit any of the other normal dnfi criteria.

ask to follow if:

• you're 21+.
• you kin any of my primary kins.