basics:

• honesty
• kindness
• patience
• sense of humor
• loyal to family/friends
• reasonably social
• impeccable timing
• well-read
• good with kids
• ability to fix things (e.g. computers, cars, etc.)

superficial list (bonus points):

• tall(er than me)
• dark colored hair
• nice face
• enjoys the arts
• plays an instrument
• likes dogs
• can drive stick
• does not have the same job as i do
• clean hands and feet
• beefy forearms like a damned disney prince