- send "thank you" notes
- practice good posture
- speak more softly
- listen without interrupting
- wear solid colors
- ignore fads, or use them sparingly
- have a signature wine you serve at home
- wear only 2-3 accessories
- have impeccable manners
- read on a variety of topics
- maintain a budget
- study the arts
- have on signature perfume
- show restraint in expressing angers
- learn the art of conversation
- learn french
- wear a trench coat
- learn how to wear a scarf
- wear more skirts and blouses (combined or separately)
- practice quality over quantity
- don't yell or scream
- learn how to dance the waltz and the salsa
- have one fabulous signature dish you serve guests
- remember birthdays
- go on picnics
- wear dresses more often, especially on dates
- simplify your life, your home and your calendar
- wear pearls
- enjoy the nature around you
- let him open the door for you
- remember it's more important to be kind than it is to be right
- serve coffee or tea after meals
- arrive exactly on time
- don't complain
- dress to trail
- be well traveled
- wear feminine lingerie
- keep your home clean and uncluttered
- when guests stay over, put a small pitcher and a glass of water on their nightstand, along with a book they might enjoy
- learn how to host a small dinner party
- have one subdued color scheme throughout your home - use accessories to add color
- learn how to make the perfect martini
- learn how to tie both a regular tie and a bow tie (whether you're a man or a woman)
- be a lady at work, especially when delivering a difficult message or when tempers flare
- wear lovely hats and (sun)glasses
- don't point out the mistakes of others
- wait your turn patiently
- don't curse
- chew each bite 20 times
- sip your drink
- learn proper etiquette for all situations
- accept compliments graciously
- be quietly self-confident
- don't boast
- be respectful to others
- have fresh flowers in your home
- write a letter rather than send an email to beloved ones
- keep your nails well-manicured
- maintain your shoes and clothing
- don't ever lose your 'noire de vivre'
- be well groomed
- remember that money does not equal elegance, nor is it necessary to be elegant
- wear less/natural make-up
- wear well-fitting clothes
- spray lavender on your sheets
- be positive
- learn to politely say 'no'
- be concerned with making others feel comfortable
- maintain a good health
- don't overindulge
- hold yourself to high standards
- turn your mobile off at dinner
- wear simple classic hairstyles
- think before you speak or act - ask yourself: can anything good come from this?
- apologize sincerely
- have integrity
- don't speak ill of others, or gossip
- always take a gift to your host or hostess
- tie a scarf to your handbag
- take a clutch in the evening
- only wear sneakers for exercise or a long day away
- wear heels more often
- use white sheets, white towels and white dishes
- be sure your clothes are pressed
- your car's horn should say "pardon me, but do you see me", rather than "get out of my way"
- overdo empathy
- light candles in your home
- go for walks in the park on Sunday
- give others sincere compliments
- understand your own worth
- learn how to open a bottle of champagne
- dress appropriately for the occasion
- do small favors for others, without expecting anything in return
- say "please" and "thank you"
- take the time to stop and listen to others, especially children
- take responsibility for yourself and your own happiness
- keep a journal
- give thoughtful gifts, rather than expensive ones
- less is more
- savor the moment
jul 6 2014 ∞
oct 20 2020 +