honorary family members:

• you love spicy food despite your digestive problems
• once you trust someone, you are not afraid of love
• you get "it" (x5, for each of us)

"rill" family members:

• you used to not be able to handle spicy food but now try new things
• you are youthful sometimes but so strong and powerful other times
• you dress how you want, eat how you want, listen to the music you want.
• you bring sunlight and choose selectively whom you keep close
• you have a sense of duty to your parents, brothers and sisters, aunts and uncles.
• your hugs.
• you took care of me when I was little and so was she (you might almost consider me your children's aunt, too)
• you have a sense of duty to your children
• you have somewhere you want to be in life. you have honorable aspirations.
• you put your soul into it. it being everything.