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if you see a flower, never pluck it because it will die instead of leaving it grow. love is not about possession, love is about appreciation.

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listography TERMS
GIVE A GIFT OF MEMORIES
FAVORITE LISTOGRAPHY MENTIONS
IMPORTANT NOTICES
MESSAGES
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smell

  • put on some sweet-scented lotion
  • spray a bit of your favorite perfume
  • make your favorite coffee

touch

  • hug people you love
  • cuddle your pet
  • read while lying in your bed
  • hug a soft plushie

appearance

  • wash your face/use face wipes
  • dry shampoo if you’re too tired to shower
  • brush your teeth
  • exfoliate + moisturize your skin
  • change into clean clothes
  • brush your hair
  • put on some lip balm

taste

  • eat small fruit snacks
  • buy yourself a treat occasionally
  • make a cake in a mug
  • chew flavored sugar-free gum
  • put lemon in your water

hearing

  • listen to your favorite music
  • or just wear earphones to block things out
  • listen to white noise/ambient sounds

sight

  • look in the mirror and tell yourself you look good today
  • clean the clutter in your room + throw things away
  • close all the unused tabs
  • clean the dishes + do your laundry
  • delete unused apps
  • make your bed
  • fold your clothes tidily
  • organize your books and papers
  • turn down the brightness of your phone/computer at night
  • smile and be more polite at strangers
  • open up the curtains, let the light in
  • go outside often

body

  • do your favorite exercises
  • take a nap
  • take deep breaths with your stomach
  • take a warm shower
  • stand up and stretch your legs
  • put on some music and go for a walk outside
  • get at least 7 hours of sleep
  • drink lots of water

hobbies

  • always make some time to do what you love
  • create art, writing and music for yourself, not anyone else
  • don’t feel embarrassed about your hobbies
  • be patient with yourself, progress takes time! don’t give up
  • hobby ideas: cooking, reading, drawing, painting, a sport, a new language, learn a musical instrument, collect things, photography, join a class or a club

mind

  • put yourself first
  • spend less time around people who make you feel bad
  • write your thoughts in a journal
  • stand up for yourself
  • stop judging people
  • don’t dwell in the past
  • concentrate on what’s happening now
  • don’t try for people who don’t care
  • stop caring about what’s not important
  • be a friend to yourself, rather than a bully
  • learn to love your body
  • see the bigger picture
  • change self-destructive habits
  • appreciate the good
  • let things go
  • ask for help

studying

  • make lists
  • focus on priorities
  • stop putting everything off
  • turn off your phone if you need to
  • take breaks
  • do one thing at a time
  • believe in yourself!

others

  • laugh a lot
  • get a plant and name it
  • buy flowers for yourself
  • be ok with being alone
  • go out with your friends
  • watch a movie

i hope you feel better soon, you deserve so much. i love you !!

jul 26 2018 ∞
dec 29 2018 +