The type of "friends" I need to drop.

• they drain me
  • emotionally
  • mentally
  • financially
• they don't have their shit together
  • they don't show any effort or desire to improve themselves or their life
  • they are stagnant and try to convince me to give up on my goals/progression
• bad influences
  • gossipers
  • trigger my unhealthy habits
  • place more negativity/drama in my life that I don't need
• they don't believe in me or my goals
• they guilt trip me
• they shame me
• they talk to me when it's convenient
• they don't open up to me despite the fact I open up to them
• they don't keep their promises
• they flake out on plans with me
• the only good they see in me is based off appearance and not beyond my vessel
• they discourage me from getting better and tell me I'm too "boring" now
• they push me away from them emotionally but expect me to chase them
• they make me feel guilty for being in love with someone who's stable
• they manipulate my guilt by using self-pity instead of admitting their faults
  • acting victim-y
• they are dishonest to me
• they do not appreciate me
  • my friendship
  • my care
  • my help
  • my advice
• they only talk to me because I listen and keep their secrets, but they don't know a thing about me or even care about my situation
• they give me shallow/callous responses when I place myself into a vulnerable position by opening up
• they are inconsiderate
• they have an up and down, roller coaster relationship with me because they refuse to communicate
• they make poor decisions that get them in trouble and expect me to get them out of it
  • but are never there for me when I need a shoulder to cry on