Films, literature, music. They've all taught you that it's okay to be lost at this point in your life.

• Beginners
• Lucky Jim
• Helplessness Blues

But this is it. This is your adult life.

• Find a job
• Find some friends
• Find a flat
• Find a girl
• Find peace

It looks alright written out like that. Although - there's something about that last one that feels like it sound have been written like this:

• Find peace (in your movement away from contacts and towards frames)

Can a man find peace in his choice of eye-wear? God. I'm looking at all this as if I'm going to be a character that Jude Law could play. What if that's not the case? What if i'm a lyric in a Nick Cave song?

• Try not to cheat on your girlfriends
• Buy a piano
• Find Jesus / Buddha
• Stare into rivers and lakes, spend plenty of time on bridges
• Eat your five a day.