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I will never find a guy like this because they don't exist. ='(

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Will look like this:

  • strong jaw line
  • taller than me
      • but not too tall
  • nice arms (not muscly, well toned is good)
  • eyes that can make me blush and melt at the same time
  • a smile that will make me smile all the time
  • have nice, long fingers (not for sexual purposes, although it could be)
  • dimples! ...That'd be a bonus.
  • comfortably stylish; well put together with a personal touch
  • high top shoes!

Will act like this:

  • bring me flowers for no reasons
  • low voice that's good for singing
  • can play an instrument
  • child at heart
  • blushes easily when he's embarrassed
  • can cook delicious food and don't mind doing it
  • protective but not possessive
  • makes me want to become a better person
  • can laugh at himself
  • open minded
  • have some similar interests as me; open minded enough to share our interests with each other
  • like similar music
  • loves little kids as much as I do
  • want to become a father as much as I want to become a mother
  • responsible but with spontaneity
  • trustworthy
  • think of me as a priority, not just an option
  • believe in gender equality
  • supports my crazy ideas; gently put down my insane ones
  • understands me to a point similar to mind reading, when it comes to certain things
  • can satisfy me, emotionally and physically
  • never allow me to be insecure about our relationship
  • honest, to a certain extent
  • loyal and have the mentality that cheating is the worst thing a person can do in a relationship
  • the mentality that hitting a woman is the worst thing a man can do in any relationship
  • direct and straight forward with what he wants
  • listen to what I have to say and hear what I don't say out loud
  • a hopeless romantic; like me
  • doesn't mind doing things that are considered to be "girly"
  • doesn't judge me
  • not only accept my flaws but love them
  • optimistic and occasionally idealistic
  • plans ahead but won't get upset when sudden changes happens
  • know when to apologize
  • into anime/manga; consequently, a little geeky
  • have endless conversations with me just bantering back and forth
  • a strong shoulder for me to lean on; physically and emotionally
  • can give a good massage
  • know how to enjoy the simple things in life
  • one of my bestest friends
  • writes me random love letters when I least expect it
  • great sense of humor; can make me laugh
  • loves to spoon and cuddle
  • bold and direct; but gets shy at small things
  • doesn't mind being cheesy once in a while
  • willing to do things he wouldn't normally do to make me happy
  • have a sexy phone voice haha
  • sincere and cares genuinely about others
  • nonjudgmental towards others; accepts others for who they are
  • loves roller coasters as much as I do
  • be humble
  • treats his family well
  • an adventurer
  • confident, but with modesty
      • I'm SO attracted to guys like that. You can tell that they are confident with themselves 100% and in everything that they do, but at the same time when you complement them they're really modest about themselves. SUCH A TURN ON!
  • strong enough to lead me and for me to depend on but also strong enough to take the back seat once in a while
  • not afraid to show his vulnerable side to me
  • know how to make it up to me when he gets me mad
  • attentive to my needs; emotionally and physically
  • polite and knows his manners
  • respect elders
  • doesn't swear unnecessarily
  • not manipulative; no mind games or guilt trips

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How to know he's THE ONE:

Ten Signs That You’ve Met the One July 26th, 2010 Posted in Dating Advice for Women

The Ten Signs

So chances are, there is more than one person out there who fits the bill for you. All of them are less than perfect. But if there are no perfect partners, how can you know whether to stay or go? Here are 10 relationship markers to help you know if he or she is The One:

  • When you’re together you feel like you’ve come home.
  • You feel like your partnership was meant to be, as if kissed by destiny.
  • In your communication with each other there is a rapid “knowing” of what each of you means.
  • You have a shared mission in life, perhaps a cause, a career, or the creation of a family life.
  • When you’re together the world seems like a better place.
  • Your mood is elevated when you’re together. It’s not necessarily passion or excitement, although that’s there too at times.
  • When you look at him/her you see a part of yourself that’s been missing. Perhaps it’s her assertiveness or his joy of adventure. But it’s something that when added to your life, makes you feel more complete.
  • Being together makes you more hopeful about the future you are creating.
  • You can be more authentic and fully yourself around your partner.
  • Being together makes each of you work harder on overcoming bad habits and becoming more loving people.

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From a horoscope compatibility site:

  • Listen to your beloved.
  • Try to show tolerance and be open-minded. Avoid showing sarcasm and negativity. In general, anything that can cause you a bad mood or her bad mood should be avoided.
  • You should learn to give as well as to take - to give or take is not the answer, only a combination of the two in equal measure.
  • Try to make your partner's parents like you. It is very important for both of you.
  • Learn to give unconditionally. To expect always something in return is the same as paying for something.
  • Avoid being too emotional in your everyday life. It can be especially applied to males. You will have to convince your beloved that you are strong; that you are self-confident; that you know what to do; and that she can rely on your emotional strength to be a help for her.
  • Kindness, understanding, trust and consideration are the keywords in relationships. If you are only trying to derive benefit from these relationships, forget about mutual understanding.
  • In every relationship it is important to be a good and reliable friend. If you are your beloved's understanding friend, she/he will be grateful and rewarding.
  • Don't let anyone treat you abusively. Demand respect.
  • If your relationships are established, you should carry on showing your beloved that you love and appreciate him/her. It is not difficult. You can do this by little things as buying flowers and small presents from time to time.
  • Beware of possessiveness and claiming behavior. Keep in mind that your partner is as independent as you are and should never be treated as an object or possession.
  • Don't let other people push your buttons. Otherwise you won't be able to make any decision by yourself.
  • Learn to adjourn your recompense through patience, trust and understanding.
  • Try to see your partner's point of view. Agree to disagree.
  • Respect your partner's space.
jun 30 2009 ∞
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