what they want:

• commitment-level: marriage
• relationship type: monogamy
• kids: childfree/fencer
• partnership: life partner, team

communication style:

• direct communication
• resolves conflict quickly
• responds quickly
• reconciles quickly

terms of service:

• boundaries:
  • tbd
• expectations:
  • date nights weekly
  • respectful
  • romantic

qualities:

• compassionate
• honest
• kind
• thoughtful
• self-care (doctors, gym, therapy, etc)

how I feel around them:

• comfortable
• excited
• good
• relaxed
• safe

disposition:

• consistent
• empowering
• funny
• playful
• predictable

lifestyle:

• nice home
• outgoing/social
• travel

dealbreakers:

• bad friends
• cheating
• cruelty
• drug-use
• emotional abuse
• lack of commitment
• mixed signals
• negging