• Accept and admit that you need change. - This is a huge step. The fact that you already clicked on this article shows that you want to change, and know somewhere you have a problem.
• Think of all the things in your life you want better. - Make a list of all the things, or the thing, that you want to change.
• Don't set any limits to your change. - If you think maybe, someone will make fun of you for trying to change, or maybe it isn't possible, or that you just can't, realize that it doesn't matter! It's a psychological change, so attitude plays a big part in your ability to succeed. Set small, easy goals that you know you can achieve and work your way up.
• Write the steps that you need to take to achieve the changes you wrote down. - Be reasonable, but don't be afraid to reach high at the same time. Set a day when you'll start taking all these steps.
• When that day comes to start doing those steps, just do it. - Don't even think about it. Abandon everything you don't want and just throw yourself into the new you!
• Make a habit of these new steps. - It takes 21 days to break a habit. The first day will be só hard, but then it gets twice as easy every time... you have to want to do it for yourself don't give up, remind yourself everyday that you have to make a change!

Remember that you should be whatever makes you happy. The world is full of positive and negative, and you should generally try to focus on the positive side.

• Forget about other people and their comments, your life is yours.
• Don't let people tell you how to live your life. Be yourself, and be true. Stay true to yourself, and others will be true to you. Don't ever doubt yourself.
• Travel somewhere to clear your mind, maybe you'll discover new things or new thoughts that may change your life!
• Read some philosophical thoughts. Maybe you'll find that your personality existed many centuries ago.
• Changing your appearance is a fun way to encourage inner change (fun clothes will encourage you to be fun!) but should never be confused with the real thing.
• Above all else, change begins with consciousness. If you are not aware of what you are doing, you cannot change your behavior.