before following

  • i do not support people being rude to aro/ace people of any kind or invalidating their identities this includes demi and gray identities.
  • i'm locked on twitter overall for my own comfort, but i will briefly unlock if you wanna rt my funny jokes!
  • though i do not want minors following, my account is pretty sfw. the only thing nsfw is jokes, really

do not follow if you/you're:

  • racist, ableist, homo/bi/aroace/panphobic, a terf, usual criteria basically.
  • under 18
  • are shitty to those who have stigmatized mental illnesses such as npd or bpd
  • mock people's appearances or enjoy jokes with people doing this. it's bad and in some cases it can be fatphobic and ableist
  • mock peoples interests or mannerisms that aren't harming other people
  • glorify pedophilia, incest, abuse, other such topics.

i believe that these topics CAN be written about if they are treated with tender care, however, ships and smut with these topics are glorification. i am not proship.

  • enable people who glorify the subjects above. same goes if you're neutral to said glorification
  • age up minors for the sake of writing or drawing smut, even if it's something that happens 'eventually'. it's weird
  • talk about drama excessively, vaguely or not. i only care about 'drama' if it's for bigots and abusers that i don't know about so i can block them.
  • think it's ok to harrass other people and make call out posts for them over petty things such as arguments that should be kept private or the end of a relationship, platonic or not. at the end of the day, this should be reserved for people who are actually abusive and have harmed a community.
  • you post lgbt+ discourse. i am too exhausted to see it and do not want to see it, especially considering the current state of the world right now.
  • believe blackwashing exists and generally throw a fit when people portray their own qualities that you don't like onto a fictional character
  • tell people kys unironically. it's corny
  • consume things with problematic creators such as harry potter, hazbin/helluva boss, etc. being 'anti-creator' isn't an excuse either, especially when the creator is currently using their funds for bigotry.
  • you post a lot of genshin impact or other mihoyo works unless i follow first/we already know each other/are mutuals, i blacklist the characters and the series so don't worry about me seeing it.
  • i will also soft/block in general if you make me uncomfortable and i do this quite liberally. please don't try to follow again after i do this

(i know sometimes byfs/dnis don't do much, but i would like to keep my social media a safe place for me. this is also stuff that will make me break the mutual as soon as i see it)

may 14 2020 ∞
jul 23 2023 +